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I have an over pocessive dad who left his eldest son stay with his family whole through his childhood when he worked away from home & stayed with his wife and his younger kids. Eldest one is my hubby and its his responsibility to take care of the family now as his youngest ones though elder to me is still treated as babies.

My over pocessive FIL and his sister, my hubbies aunt, who is a very bossy and stubborn character is making even my dreams about a happy married life a nightmare! We live far away from both our house and I miss all the funs of being around with my family and friends. Every vacation we had after marriage was a hell with these people around and my hubby's unsupportive manner to what I face is hurting me so much along with this and Its effecting the stability of our relationship also. If any of you had similar experience please help. I am not good at making anyone do what I think is right so pls advice me how to tackle this situation. Prajakta replied. communicate your feelings clearly to your husband. sit down and talk to him calmly.. tell him that u are very disturbed.it is your husbands duty 2B on your side as he has taken vow 2 protect you .try & convince him to move out of FILs house. did u read the article on the site about dealing with difficult inlaws?it was very godd. get a JOB so u are out whole day .