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Hi all,

My daughter she is now 3 years old... her acton is making me to be more worried. Especially when i take her out to park or somewhere she acts very bad like hitting other kids, pushing them from top... if i yell at her she just screams like anything ...,, i find all kids on same age group they listens to their parents and vey obidient. Why my daughter is like that. She has no control... if i tell her do not do that she doesn' t listent to it she just ignores and yells and will give a hard pinch to me and runs..... so all parents and my freinds sourrounding really thinks bad about me and my husband as they feel there is a problem with her up bringing. They will not allow thier kids to play with my daughter. Initially they used to allow ... but now they stopped. This and all makes me to be more worried..

She screams, yells, cries, (this doesn' t looks normal sometime).

Freinds pls tell me.. Is this normal behavior for her age. What i should do in order to control her behavior. Due to her behavior no freinds gives attention to my talk. I feel really neglected. My self confidence is reducing day by day... I stat finding mistakes in me and going to depression.

I really need help from you freinds.

sudha replied. hai sumi,
i can understand ur prob.. its quite natural.. some kids do hit others.. but as u' ve said,not all kids r obedient.. some dont obey in 1 or 2 aspects..
now stop hitting in front of others.. after she comes home, just try out TIME OUT.. it means u make ur kid sit alone for some time keeping her finger on her mouth.. dont see or talk to her in that time so that she can u.stand that wat she does was wrong.. tyr to repeat this whenever she hit others.. then she' ll try to follow that u' ll give punishment whenever she hits others..
hope this helps.. do try and let me know what happd.. all the best..