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I don't know whether I should discuss this here or not.
I need suggestionsi,
I am new to this forum, I am here to look for more suggestions to change my brothers wife attitude towerds her in-laws and family members.
We are the simple and happy family who gives importance to human relations, friends and respect elders.
Here comes the problem with my brothers marriage, I mean to say problem with my brothers wife. Till know I don't understand her attitude. With her behavior every one in my family is suffering.
She won't mingle with our family ,as my brother stays in other location on work, when she comes to our home she will act as she is free with everyone, and in absence of my brother she suffers everyone by not respecting my parents though my parents treat her as daughter. She is selfish she loves only her parents and their family. Even my mother suffers with health issues she won't help and at that time she goes to her parents home. Till my brother cones to our home. Even she don't respect my brother, only she wants to fulfill her needs that's it.she don't want anyone other than her parents. Even her parents support her ,she mostly likes to stay with their parents.

How can we change her attitude towards my family, we are so friendly with her
She is not changing her attitude, she is behaving selfish

Please give your suggestions.. NN replied. Your brother should see all this and talk to his wife about her behavior. What she is doing is not at all acceptable and she has to change and learn how to behave or just leave if she wants to. NN replied. You should tell your brother to talk to his wife about all this and sort things out. If you or someone else tries to talk things can get out if hand and relations can be affected permanently. Let your brother handle it. munni replied. Hello Vikki,
So you are facing the problem with your brother wife then it would be better try to expose her in front of your brother so that there would not be any problem to you and your brother will set her. Megha replied. Hello Vikki T
Some girls would be like that only because they do not know the value of relations they every thing must be done according to their wish only. So for such ladies you need to behave according to them only otherwise they would create such homes lacking of happiness only. So take decision accordingly to your family. mala replied. some girls do't change they behave like that only. you don't find her true color before marrige have you noot background research about her? it is impossible to change such attitudes of women. i suggest treat her like the way she treats you guys. no option. don't be so curtious to her she don't deserve you people.my friends bhabhi also behaves like that so they keep minimal contact with her of course your brother will suffer in it but you have onlyy this option.