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Role of in-laws:my husband is my biggest prob

2004-09-30

Name: gypsy I hate my husband, I had a love marriage 8 yrs back, a daughter of 3 yrs old going to creche and school, I am a full time working lady, till today he has not earned a penny. Forget it, I dont need it my money is enough. But he drinks and if I stop him he abuses me. Now he has started abusing me outdoor i.e. out of my house and says if I dont open the door when he came late drunk he will wake up every neighbour in my soc and make a big issue, he has abused my parents also. I need to divorce him, what is the procedure for it, can someone help me.
If I dont object his drinking, he is fine and I hate his drinking bcoz twice in a month he drinks and comes late say 2.00 am in the morning, I am supposed to ignore it and be sweet to him.
What should I do
Early reply is expected
Thanks a lot in advance

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2004-09-30

Name: Subha Sreekant
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do not put up with him.

hi gypsy,
i feel for you. do not put up with him. you have to set an example and teach your daughter that nobody has to take any kind of abuse from others. There are lots of agencies that help with battered women. If not call a divorce lawyer and he will explain the procedure. you can go to narika/sati which are agencies that help south-asian women. i do not know where you live but in this day and age it does not matter. you should stand up for yourself.
good luck and god bless,
subha

2004-10-06

Name: gypsy
Subject:

Thanks for your email, I live in pune. If you happen to know some thing more pls. let me know abt divorce etc.
Regards
Wafia

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