Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi girls,
wanted to let you all know, today is my 12 th day, i went in for a sonogram and looks like there are many medium follicles (as usual...) , so keeping fingers crossed to see if atleast some of them become bigger..

It looks like the tide is against me this cycle, but i am trying to keep a positive attitude...

I think the thing which is really scaring me is that i am going to India in December and i am sure i am going to get rattled by everyone there ..:(

so trying to mentally prepare myself for that ...

-P
Y replied. HI ! I have the same story as P. We are trying for almost two years to conceive and have been married abt 4 yrs. Its becoming very depressing now as i always keep thinking abt it. Back in india, I had a wonderful career which kept me busy. I do not have regular periods anymore. Most of the time its progesterone driven.
I am going to india for a wedding and will be meeting all relatives. I am sure abt the regular questions that will be asked by some of them and i just needed some emotional support from all you friends. U are lucky sunshine to have a supporting MIL. In my case, i have my husband's support and at times he is also upset abt the whole thing. I have already taken clomid for 6 cycles so i do not know whats next. I will get a proper medical checkup done in India and hope it helps.
Wish all of u luck. Hope to hear good news from all in this board.
-Y Sunshine replied. Hi! I know this period can be very tough... Don't loose faith. Be very cool.. be mentally prepared to listen to a lot of comments.. Only thing I suggest is something my mom-in-law told me recently...This is the world...People will talk! no matter what. What u have to remember is that they don't know what you're going through, so just IGNORE them. I know that she also listens to a lot from a lot of narrow minded people... But has always been strong for me.
God bless you.. and remember. HE's with you.

With love,
Sunshine Malathi replied. Rightly said, ur husband's support is the best thing in the world that u have. Yeah, things will fall in line. Btb I am in US. Malathi replied. Dear P,

Dont worry things will be fine. I can truly understand u, going to India, questions being asked etc. I am a classic example. In 5 days i will be celebrating my 1st anniversary and already my in-laws feel that it is late and I shud have been pregnant.
Things will work out. Will pray for u.

Bye.