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Role of in-laws:Problems with In-Laws?

2009-08-20

Name: Editor Do you have trouble coping with your in-laws? What have you done to reduce the tension between you and your in-laws? Is your partner supportive?

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2013-09-25

Name: Nandini Garg
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Reducing tension with in lws

There had been some problem with my in laws recently due to some property dispute so there was much tension between us. In order to reduce the tension, we separated our kitchen. Earlier we used to cook and eat at the same place but after this issue we have separated our kitchen. We cook separately but eat together. this has brought back the happy times.

2016-02-27

Name: meera
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RE:Reducing tension with in lws

does this really help?? i thought it will increase the tension to seperate the kitchens. it will increase the gap between u and in laws.

2013-09-25

Name: Alka Kapoor
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Reducing tension with in-laws

I think you have taken the right decision.We live in a joint family. We are 4 daughter in laws so there were some tension between us. My mother in law was smart enough to gauge the tension, so she asked us to separate our kitchens so that the tension is little bit reduced. Now though we all cook separately, we ensure to have at least one meal together.

2013-09-25

Name: Manikratna
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DEaling with in laws

I do not get along with my in laws. Its not that I didn' t try but I gave my full support and tried my best to please them but still they seem to find some fault in me. However much I tried but I just could not keep them satisfied. Sometimes I feel that things have not changed much in India especially with regards to daughter in law. I do not know how to deal with the situation.

2016-02-27

Name: samantha
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RE:DEaling with in laws

most of the in laws are like that only. there is not much situation has changed. daughter in laws are treated like a guest only and someone not from them.

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