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Role of in-laws:Handling DH

2008-05-22

Name: sja My husband thinkings is like he is still bachelor enjoying everytime by reading papers and watching TV.These are the 2 things he would do returning from office everyday and for the past 2 years..

Never known of what is happening in the home...what is his responsibility...If anything goes repaired , only i have to go and search for people to get it done ...he will never turn up to do anything of his own...Even if i ask him to do, then that would end with fight.. If some one does and give him, he would be happy...Will depend always his mum and dad for anything and everything .I cant understand whether he is lazy or incapable...

Whatever i tell he will knot his head and accept.but if something goes wrong in that, he will pinch me like anything telling its ur decision and becaz of that everything had gone wrong .I had never seen him taking decisions of his own for any incidents ...He doesnt have his own individuality . he would try to cover all his negatives under single blanket and will fear to take up any thing new...

He has lots of bigger hopes and bigger plans like should go and settle in US,should get nice home etc but will never take any ground works for that and wants me to take all the steps and risks physically and financially so that he would come and join cool . If i avoid those plans also , he will not let me to live properly..No risks he will take by himself .But everything should happen in righter way and he would enjoy that end part. I literally cant understand how to deal this guy ..please do give ur suggestions

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