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Name: sonu

Dear Riti,
U r in ur senses and clever enough to know whats smoking behind u!

None can take ur daughter away from u. Even ur hubby doesnt leave u. Congrats that u r bringing one sibbling for ur dearest daughter..And I wish u best of the life.
Everything will be settled !

Its thta u r in pregnancy and may be having moodswings ,so scared more than u need.
I assume u r overthinking on it. Sometime before , I used to be scared in many ways. Its just monster in law playing mind game.
If she is a doctor, u r also an educated and a genration ahead than her. so u defiitely clever enough to handle ur problems. Keep faith in ur strngth. Stop thinking u r naive to politics. u dont need any politics to gain ur husband trust. He soon can realise where truth lies.

Ok. stop treating urself in self pity and stop talking to urself. Instead, do some yoga or mediatation. I know taking control of mind is impossible when we r in HER thoughts.

But I could do it. I didnt do any mediatation or yoga...but started some puja and concentrated on it. I decided to not to give any space to her in my thoughts.
Just spending happy time with my dear hubby. Yes ,i hated him like anything when he was doing nothing but shaking his head to his mom.
But I decided myself to live happily without anyone' s interferencein my mind.

First, Riti, Take ownership on husband and feel he is ur' s! So u juts can think of her as an outsider and definitely can love him though its tough. Just like him as he is ... and spend good time...talk cool, smiling and always look pleasant.

it makes difference. In ur hubby' s presence, Tell him u both are not going to fight on any issues related to them. Decide on it. He must be willing a peaceful life with u . Why u have developed the feeling \" he' ll leave u soon and take ur daughter away ?\"
Can u pl tell any strong reasons that u smelled ?

First, make urself feel better. No one is going to do any harm to u without ur permission. Show ur confidence and courage.

Do u know what? Even cruel animals cant do any harm to us unless they sense fear within us. So, dont show ur fears to them. Live confident and courageous.Tell him u want to live a peaceful life with two cute babies.
Tell him ...U want to make a good wife and good mother in ur life and u need his support for that. Also, riti, Dont ever get inlaws topic urself.Dont be nagging.
Alwasy look pleasant and happy ! he should be surprised of seeing u quite happy!

All the best and I want to listen more frm u if I were incorrect in assuming anything.

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