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Role of in-laws:feeling very low today

2007-12-05

Name: Dd Hi,
my subject line says it. i am feeling very low today. I am on TTC for a long time & on treatmnet with my gynec since 6 months. I was hopeful but my period started today, that too 6 days early. so was ffeling sad since morning.

Also, ther is one more thing?
My brother' s 5 yr old daughter is coming to stay with me for weekends bcs bro & bhabhi r busy with some business related work. So i had planned funfilled weekend. I have one cousin co-sil here, whose daughter is good friend to my niece and also one of my friend ahs little daughter. so i had invited them at my place for saturday evening with the kids so kids can play in a park in my society & we all can have dinner together. I had told my il' s last sunday that niece is coming to stay for weekend. Now they have invited 2 of cousin sis & their family for dinner on saturday & expects us to go their for dinner. I am so fustrated that to do so i will have to canel my dinner plans with friends & their daughter. we both (mydh & me) r confused as what to do?
my dh had gone to il' s house today morning to pick up something that time they told him about the dinner & when my dh told them about our plan fil got upset. we feel strogly about fil' s emotions & do not want to hurt them. but in real delimma now as what to do?
Any ides or suggestions welcome.

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2007-12-06

Name: Namita
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anita have given very good idea ..jst follow that .. dnt worry ... dnt let yourself feel down, everything vl b good

2007-12-06

Name: anita
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advice

You can have lunch with ur friends and their family..and keep the dinner plan at ur inlaws place..however its difficult to convince elders so its better tht we adjust according to them and sametime not to cancel ur plans..

2007-12-06

Name: Dd
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thanks for the advice.

I am feeling much better today.
I am also thinking of replanning. but saturday lunch is not possible as I will be working. & so that cousin co-sil has agreed to look after my niece at her place in the day time.
so probably I will ask them to come to play 2 hrs in the evening before i go to dinner at my mil´ s place. or may be I can calll them to lunch on sunday if I am not too tired.
I know it is very silly issue & I am acomodative type so i will reorganise. I was just not in a mood yesturday & so got distubed fpr very small issue.

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