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Hi friends,
i cannot thank u all becoz i might be needing all of ur advices for the rest of my life..I dont undrstnd wat kind of generation is this ,where women is expected to work in man´ s world and also at the same time she is treated like old traditional bahu´ s..wen it cumes to household work its only women tht has to do and men r meant to take rest at home .most of the men are like tht..one whose husband´ s helps one´ s wife is really fortunate..Indian culture is imposed wen playing the role of daughtr in law.now a day´ s most of the husbnd´ s expect there wife to share financiall burdens..still no recognization they wont even compare there wife´ s to there mom while most of our mil were housewifes and stilll dominating..great art these mil aquire.when will things change i wonder if we can change someone´ s way of thinking..
g replied. being raised in Canada, i really hate the fact that i am not working and the reason is i am here in the U.S on visa and am not working. My life is so pathetic. He says that it is my job to serve it to him. i just hate that! what am i? his slave? Just because he works, and i don' t he wants to be treated like a king. don' r wives come home and want to be treated like a queen.i cant wait till i start working. it' s just not fair!!!! riyaa replied. hey even i am working when i go to office i give my husband even clothes in his hand bfr he baths breakfast lunch everything then quickly gets my child ready send him to school and then again repeat same chore for my self no body there to send us office mil watching like idol no body to ask whether you need something if i get lste from my office casually my mil makes faces even though my child goes to cretch that bad lady is not even for an hour ready to take care of her own grandchild never ask me glass of water also expects me to feed her serve her tea very strange hubby expect me share almost half of financial burden in return no recognisation by them if in hurry i do any mistake it is being pointed out even if i doonot do any mistake even it is unnessary being pointed out what is this world i want to scream and ask my mil have lived liked rani all her life and still living like that even though she was through out house wife her husband have always helped in house hold work she doonot let my hubby help me, we could not blame mil for not letting their son help are they mad they could not see are we machines need no rest no respect no recognisation of any help towards house
even i am upset could not do any thing to change it
we are fool going out and earning we should sit at home atleast we will have only to do household work
but if we sit at home our mil will make more of our life miserable
who would see her face whole dat impossible gg replied. my fil does all the work at home inculude sweeping n swapping...infact my mil doesnt do anything but if i ask anything to my hsuabdn say can u gv this..she will yell at me ...another big huge lecture for me...wil be ready...all the rules regualtions..customes ...tradition is only for dil in india...thats it