Parents of Schoolgoers  Discussion Forum

he dont want to tell them that what a crap they r gifting..i cant wear a sadkchap stuff & my ils r well settled. They never took care of me when i was unwell so why only its my duty to understand their feelings.
Man talks abt culture and indian values & also bahu kartvya.I say they all r just taking support of it...does the culture tells u to mentally torture a person on the name of bahu.Sm worst cases to burn the bahus but that has stopped to sm extent after strict laws & girls r cmg out to complain abt dowry.
Does man ever realises how much our parents hv to worry abt our dowry & later also on the name of festival & pujas they hv to gift us sooo much.Every parents r not so capable & even if they do their best they dont get a single praise. Do boy' s family gv them a single thing.

They bring us in family calling us lakshmi & new daughter but will they behave the same with them as do with us.Its not that we dont adjust...95 of girls try to adjust as we love our hubbys & cant do without loving his family but after smtime pani goes above head & we start thinking that we dont need them.

So what everyone in society want...to shutup only today' s bahu to keep quiet bcos that makes them feel that thr is no problem.Sorry everyone but now its not possible...IL' s hv to learn to adjust withus.Maybe this generation suffers but next will be in better position.If u want respect u hv to give it to us.

We all want to be with gud in-laws as it helps us a lot, create healthy environment for kid, let us do job etc but most of the time it makes life havoc.
Now we r educated like all men so we shud walk same steps.Men is different from women but both r important for society.
They shud learn new values whr girl is brought up in same way & smtime in a better way than a boy...so why apply old rules whr girl was not educated , married at very early age, has many siblings.
Itna kafi nahin hai if aaj bhi hume hi apne parents ka ghar chodna padta hai but its not for bearing pains but to make ur home a beautiful place so u shud take care of us.

Ur mother calls us ' meri beti' only for show...jara kahin sacrifice, sharing karna padta hai ,pareshaani ho jaati hai.

I can go on & on on this matter....many thots just comes & goes..not able to write.

Want sm husband to come & read these posts...maybe he will understand his wife better. nits replied. have you heard the term
Rani lakshmibai- the famous queen of jhasi?
Thats what girls are
Rani before marriage.
lakshmi: during the initial days of marriage
then finally a Bai(maid servent) for the rest of the life. SG replied. read other one..its in complete