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Role of in-laws:feeling out numbered!

2007-09-26

Name: jooti when my inalws are visiting us, i am totally out numbered, we live near my SIL. I look at all of them and do not feel like i am a part of anything. They only talk to me when they want something from me, or want me to do something fo r them. will this ever end? how do you you other DIL' s deal with this constant pressure? this time when my IL\" S came, they turned my hubby against me and they said alot of hurtful things to me, the only way i got thru that time was taking care of my son. my MIL always makes up lies so my hubby feels sorry for her, but i know that she is only playing the victim. My FIL is worse! he has an anger problem! my SIL is a BIG baby!! she doenst know how to take care of herself!! hope to get support here!

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2007-09-26

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ur sil is a pretty smart baby she knows everything..but only in ur absense...once she sees u she becomes dumb...so that u do everything. spend ur time with ur son. take care of him. about ur mil what else she can do ? she has to do this by cooking up basless stories n with dash of mother' s tears works wonder front of son. perfect combi for melting his heart you pls ignore all this dont fight with ur husband or complain him take care of him one day he will come to u n gv them back.he himself will get fed up of all this...
and wait for their daughter to get mrrd.. soon pray to god ...tath she comes across some1 that they become busy thinking about her in laws...
if ur right god wl listen to u

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