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hi everybody,
i have always encountered irrational problems with my in laws .The way they treat me is as always a traditional one.i mean the \";mean\";thing.
well...it has created a vaccumm in me and my husband which i think can not be filled in any way .
myhusband has been told all the nasty things about be (which r not true)by my in laws .they are god.So i left uttering anything about them even if they do lots and lots of mistakes they are always \";right\";!!!!as my husband wants me to bend down all thru my life.

well ,

wether he has lost his treust in me in financial matters ,,i wonder if there no trust at all from the beggining?
but these people ofmy sasuraal are goos actors they always pretend to be superior and happy ..even if somebody kicks their ass!
my husband also pretends tobe loving and caring to me.and he takes hismask off when he starts a fight !
well even i have started to put various masks on!!
now i know .How tolive life.....you just have to pretend and act well then ucan gather whatever u want !
i have always searhched for love ,and realized...love simply does not exist !true love the only one which we have for our child thts it.
thanks for listening anyway .
trying solve my own problems bestluck for others.

take carebye. A replied. sometimes when we r angry or upset we say things that we don't mean and just say them cause we know it will hurt the other person..and since we r hurting we want to lash out. later we may regret them and many a times we don't want to apologise bacause of pride.
Don't give up on love.
in todays world where divorce is becoming such a common thing...if a man or woman thinks that it's not working out they call it quits....so if u r still together there is something to it.

Don't let words said ina fight make u'r life misrable. When u make up forget them and move on....till u'r next fight!!!
Remeber love is fighting for that person...and many a times with that person.
hope u feel better!!! mdh replied. hi
my hb is also pretented that he is the most loving hb in whole world but when he fight with me then i see his real face and listen his thinking....i was also thinking before that he have two faces but know i understand that he love me but he also love his parents may be more then me.remember one thing eveything in this world is artificial and u have to prove ur point anyhow.