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Role of in-laws:very much depressed and broken

2007-01-22

Name: Harini I have posted my problem in the joint family section,iam very depressed can anyone help me

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2007-02-15

Name: dia
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Lift up ur courage!

The only solution is to be brave and clear in words.
U r not here to please that mil and sil. be brave and say clear and loud\" I dont like critisisng and comparisions.Probably she might be great woman on earth but I' m an ordinary woman and I like being what I' m and myself I' m satisfied with my skills. So dont ever comment me again\"

Say it clearly and see the difference. If they create drama or scene on u answering back to them...U too create same scene. When that person can so harsh t u ,y cant u be similar to them! \"
Just stop being so obiedient and tolerating. This way u r just becoming leniant. Once u learn to show ur anger on face , They stop commenting to some extent and by saying harsh \" Enough Please\" u can stop them completely.

Ok u r being brave only can solve ur problem .If u cant dare to say a word , then u have to tolerate evrything while giving them plesure.SO , just say words and show anger they' ll step back befor saying something.

Tell me if you have problems even after this,We might give suggestions from past experiences.
Ok,have a brave time.Good Luck and prepare urself to answer back.Are yaar, u' ll n' joy it seeing dark faces.

2007-01-23

Name: sharani
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Look Within!

Please try yoga and meditation. This will put you in touch with your inner self and soon you will know how to find the confidence and poise that you need to ignore all the negativity that is within you and outside you.
For starters begin every morning as soon as you wake up. Close your eyes relax and focus on your breathing. Repeat the name of your favorite God at least 100 times. If you need advenced coaching join a yoga or meditation class. Remember only you can help yourself.

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