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DEAR friends,
i want a good heart 2 give suggestions and ideas 2 tackle. 1. my fil is a widower from last year.2.good earning perso.3.another son with good affection2wards hs father,4.staying alone in a house from our marraige. his brother and their fly near by the house.{step mother )also.old house with out bed room and toilet inside in a very big city.now u may got clear pictur. my problem has started right from the marriage. my mil was apatient and so i cant visit any place except my hanimoon. he used 2 interfere all the matters.i coming 2 the recent problem.iwascarried 8 th month baby in my stomach one day i wish 2 eat gobi manturian and so we vent 2 hotel at the time he came there and saw locked house. next day morning aroud 7'00 my hus went 2 his fathers house , the man said dont touch ur wife 4for 2 yrs, she is not a RAMBHA AND MANY BAD WORDS IN TAMIL ALSO.u may get lot of other girls if u want.like this. when i heard all these from his cook i just shouted 2 my hus. he is a good son who wold not say any thng 2 his father. if he said anything he began 2 say this s ur wifes opinion.?if he saw me and my hus along the next day sone new issues my arise. this is my problem dear pls help me. he used 2 cry infront of others saying i dont hve wife or any body iam a annathai.the visiters used 2 come and giving advces 2 me nd him . my hubby came.......... Diya replied. Hi Paru,
Read ur msg and really feel bad for u. I wil continue in tamil. Mamanar appadi ellam sayvathu inda samayam aniyayama pattalum oru vithaule avar than wifdfe thulaicha manushan. avar wife mele avar romba anba irunda aalu enral innum kashtam . i know adukaga ungal husband kitte appadi ellam solli irukka vendam. Ungsl husband thiruppi than appa vidam pesalai enralum you know he loves u. aduvum ippo pregnantaaga irukkum bothu ungalai nallathu sonnalum ungal hormones ungalai usuppi vidum. Anyway ignore what he says about as if u don't like someone saying some things about you , its best to become deaf towards that person.
i hope it helps.