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Hi all,
I wud like to ask u all a question..does ur MIL hug/kiss/hold hands of ur hubby in front of u? My mil does this & it pisses me off to see that. SS replied. yes its very odd tht IL does such things to a grown up kid.Suppose if our father does all this to us what these husbands will feel.why cant IL can show there love in a normal way.Most of them do this to show that they r more imp than us..all these r part of insecurity.Agar unhe itna darr tha to bete ki shaadi kyun ki...apne pass hi rakh lete...even we hv left our parents house.
If u find it is bearable and ur husband is not initiating then keep mum or else tell ur hubby abt how u feel abt it.But it might provoke a fight and he may also tell this to his parents.There r so many other things to think abt...so better to avoid all this.Kahan tak sochenge...if we'll try to end one issue other will start.Better to set priorities & avoid other probs.Slowly & slowly they will end up on their own. Shoba replied. My mil makes my husband sleep on her lap when ever we go on a long drive after a point i coudnt take it she wont allow anyone of us to talk telling her son is sleeping after a while i couldnt take this nonsense i told him to stop all this nonsense and he did even if his mom asks him to sleep on his lap he will say no. I told him i am his wife what is the point in marrying me and told him if he does all this i will never ever talk to him and i kept quite for 2 days things came to normal. i cant understand do these husbands think they are babies or something always holding their moms saree dont these men have a backbone its so disgusting kuntala replied. My mil gets angry if she sees me and my husband holding hands. She says that we embarass her by holding hands. Once we were enjoying a comedy show and we were just holding hands and laughing. After the programme was over, I went inside and my mil was barking at my hubby for holding my hand. SS replied. Hi bindiya,
Even my MIL used to hold my hubby's hand while going for the beach and i wonder why dont she hold her husbands?and one more thing irritates me is where ever we go outing and take snaps she will be near him in all the photos..sometimes i wanted me and my hubby to be in the picture but where ever she is she will come runninng and join us for the snap.i dont know how many of you experienced it??but when she is in INDIA she wont do that infront of our relatives.Why is his attitude? defenetly to irritate us... Chandni replied. Yes, mine does that. my mil and fil from time to talk will want to walk holding my hubby hands. if i wasn't around, they would even want to sleep with him in between. my mil treats my hubby like a little boy and does everything you would to a little child.