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hello
i'm in US with in-laws visiting for 6 months. i am very alone and feel helpless, almost want to kill myself. on every little thing my in-laws are turning my husband aginst me. they take every little event, turn it around and show how i don't care and they are the only ones who care for him. what am i to do. they are shattering my happy family. i don't know why one's parents can do this. i hate myself i can't do anything to prevent this from happening. please help di bh replied. Hey first of all cheer up u need to build some self confidence. Hey i have been in this situation.but the difference is i didnt give my in laws the joy of me suffering .Most of all i tackled myself. But when my husband was physically and mentally abusive i was bearing it for 3 years thinking he will come to senses one day and treat me better.But that didnt happen and i called 911 and complained.
Why dont u go out with your friends to some mall or nearby library and spend some time everyday .I know how it is to stay with in laws.It will cheer u up and bring some books to read doesnt matter what .it will keep u occupied.And if u feel u cant take it anymore stand up for yourself.Hey i did it after 4 years and i feel so much better.In fact now my in laws are scared to talk to me.I taught my IN laws and reformed my husband.Hey U cant do much with husbands they wont understand dont let in laws turn him too much against u as it will be tuff for u later on to bring back to a caring husband .keep your conversation minimum with your in laws when your husband is not there and tell them u need to go to library or mall or somewhere and spend some time outside.Its better than sitting in front of them and giving them material to talk bad about u .
One more thing our lives are precious to us and our parents dont harm it and give them pleasure that they cud harm to such an extent.