i m so sad i m disappointed everyone makes fun of me that i am not doing any job i have 2 little kids to take care of and especially my cousin tries to make fun of me in front of me i m in overseas i m living with my hubby my hubby is always at work and i have to take care of everything thats why i m not working but my cousin always says me u r not active he said my wife is doing job my cousin have no kids but he always says me in front of everyone that she is so nil and even my hubby accompanies him to laugh at me i am a sensitive person when somebody says me anything i just start to cry but its happening to me again and again. hope to get some tips from u guys plz help me i m waiting for ur help.
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i m so sad i m disappointed everyone makes fun of me that i am not doing any job i have 2 little kids to take care of and especially my cousin tries to make fun of me in front of me i m in overseas i m living with my hubby my hubby is always at work and i have to take care of everything thats why i m not working but my cousin always says me u r not active he said my wife is doing job my cousin have no kids but he always says me in front of everyone that she is so nil and even my hubby accompanies him to laugh at me i am a sensitive person when somebody says me anything i just start to cry but its happening to me again and again. hope to get some tips from u guys plz help me i m waiting for ur help.
AB replied. Dear R,
You know how lucky you are to be with your kids all the time. Motherhood is the toughest job out all & you should consider your self very lucky to have found this job . I have a 2.5yrs old son , I live in the UK & it is very expensive to live jhere. I work full time 7 crave to be like a normal housewife , so that i can look after my son . I get no satisfaction as a mother as I never get teh opportunity to look after my son like normal other mums do.
I really miss that life ....Wish i could do what you are doing . ... You are a very lucky women ....the care 7 attn you are giving your child will result in theri good developemnt ....resultd of which you will reap later in life......& trust me it will give you more satisfaction than any other job in the world . SO pls ignore what these ignorant women have to say about you..........they dont know what they are missing.
K.Radha replied. Motherhood is considered the greatest glory of Hindu women. The Taittiriya Upanishad teaches, \";Matridevo bhava\"; - \";Let your mother be the god to you.\";
Hindu tradition recognizes mother and motherhood as even superior to heaven. The epic Mahabharata says, \";While a father is superior to ten learned priests well-versed in the Vedas, a mother is superior to ten such fathers, or the entire world.\";
Some food for thought next time they make fun of you
happy-helper replied. Do not let people bring you down about your role as a stay at home mother. I've done the working mother routine and the stay at home one and I honestly would have prefered the preassure of a demanding job over being a full time mother some days. With work you put in the required number of hours and go home... There is no break for the stay at home mom.
It sounds like your husband does not do much to help you at all!! Been there before too, my hubby used to joke that staying home was sooo easy. Do you know what i did? I left him with EVERYTHING one day. My child was sick and crying alot with teething so I told hubby what was needed to help her feel better and what chores needed doing, then i just grabbed my bag and said I shall be home later!
This sounds very harsh and I do feel guilty I left my little one but he could do no less than i to aid her pain and I really did hope to teach him a lesson. For my situation it worked and he is now very understanding. He used to get mad if the washing was not finished when my girl was sick and now he says he understands and he will be the first to defend me staying at home.
Your cousin has NO right to interfere. Does your cousin support you? NO so he should keep him nose out of things. As for hubby, well, ask him if he would like if you made fun of his mother for some reason. He is sure to get huffy at that so remind him that you too are a mother and deserve the same respect. How dare he make fun of you.
If you are so lazy and inactive why does he not do all his own cleaning & washing? If you have the courage do tell him that as he feels you are so lazy that he is now responsible for himself as you feel you are to tired or whatever to wash his clothes.
Once upon a time there was a lot of respect for the mother who chose to be at home and now it is frowned upon and she is treated like a fool. It is a career choice and no one can make light of it! Be you a doctor, an engineer, a scientist or a mother it is a job and like all jobs it deserves respect! I despise people who make fun of stay at home mothers! Next time someone makes light of it remind them that behind every man there is a Domestic Goddess and without her the world would be filled with dirty linen ans soiled dishes!
This is a copy of an artical I read about stay at home mothers.... Stay-at-home moms are in need of some nurturing. We battle a social stereotype as lazy, uninteresting, and ineffectual. We worry that we are wasting our education and standing still amid a surge of feminist progress.
We have seen a lot of articles applauding mothers who go to work each day. Rarely do we see an article that celebrates those who stay-at-home. Here are just a few reminders of the ways your selflessness and sacrifices make a difference.
Staying home means
More time with children and the ability to get more involved in school and activities, which can become a cornerstone for your child's social activities and social development.
Being there for the milestones. You'll be there when they walk, talk, giggle, and want to know the answers to all kinds of questions.
More input. Monica Jones is a stay-at-home mother of two in Vienna, Virginia. She holds a masters degree in mathematics and left a career with a consulting company to stay home with her children. This is definitely a case of if you want the job done right, you have to do it yourself. Jones says. Each set of parents has an idea of what right is -- how they want their children to be raised and the values they want to instill in their children. No one can raise children the way parents want except the parents themselves.
Health benefits. Stay-at-home moms have an easier time breastfeeding and may be able to breastfeed longer, which means more health benefits for kids. Also, expect fewer doctor bills, since children don't come in contact with as many viruses and bacteria at home.
Improved quality of life. Staying at home can mean reduced stress from a slower, less frantic pace and quality family time'a real benefit for Jones: We have more family time on the weekends because we don't have to take care of the house-cleaning, bill-paying, etcetera, that I did during the week, she says.
Improved communication. My children and I have a wonderful relationship built on mutual trust, respect, and love, says Silvia Brugge, a stay-at-home mother of three. I believe that the everyday situations, struggles, and ups and downs have created an environment in which our communication is very good.
More time for spiritual needs. You can serve the community as a volunteer. You can pursue hobbies and personal interests without a heavy weight of guilt. And you might find it easier to help your parents as they get older, as well.
2005-08-16
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Name: AB Subject: you are so lucky
Dear R,
You know how lucky you are to be with your kids all the time. Motherhood is the toughest job out all & you should consider your self very lucky to have found this job . I have a 2.5yrs old son , I live in the UK & it is very expensive to live jhere. I work full time 7 crave to be like a normal housewife , so that i can look after my son . I get no satisfaction as a mother as I never get teh opportunity to look after my son like normal other mums do.
I really miss that life ....Wish i could do what you are doing . ... You are a very lucky women ....the care 7 attn you are giving your child will result in theri good developemnt ....resultd of which you will reap later in life......& trust me it will give you more satisfaction than any other job in the world . SO pls ignore what these ignorant women have to say about you..........they dont know what they are missing.
2005-05-01
#2
Name: K.Radha Subject: mother is superior
Motherhood is considered the greatest glory of Hindu women. The Taittiriya Upanishad teaches, \";Matridevo bhava\"; - \";Let your mother be the god to you.\";
Hindu tradition recognizes mother and motherhood as even superior to heaven. The epic Mahabharata says, \";While a father is superior to ten learned priests well-versed in the Vedas, a mother is superior to ten such fathers, or the entire world.\";
Some food for thought next time they make fun of you
2005-05-01
#3
Name: happy-helper Subject: YOU ARE A GODDESS
Do not let people bring you down about your role as a stay at home mother. I've done the working mother routine and the stay at home one and I honestly would have prefered the preassure of a demanding job over being a full time mother some days. With work you put in the required number of hours and go home... There is no break for the stay at home mom.
It sounds like your husband does not do much to help you at all!! Been there before too, my hubby used to joke that staying home was sooo easy. Do you know what i did? I left him with EVERYTHING one day. My child was sick and crying alot with teething so I told hubby what was needed to help her feel better and what chores needed doing, then i just grabbed my bag and said I shall be home later!
This sounds very harsh and I do feel guilty I left my little one but he could do no less than i to aid her pain and I really did hope to teach him a lesson. For my situation it worked and he is now very understanding. He used to get mad if the washing was not finished when my girl was sick and now he says he understands and he will be the first to defend me staying at home.
Your cousin has NO right to interfere. Does your cousin support you? NO so he should keep him nose out of things. As for hubby, well, ask him if he would like if you made fun of his mother for some reason. He is sure to get huffy at that so remind him that you too are a mother and deserve the same respect. How dare he make fun of you.
If you are so lazy and inactive why does he not do all his own cleaning & washing? If you have the courage do tell him that as he feels you are so lazy that he is now responsible for himself as you feel you are to tired or whatever to wash his clothes.
Once upon a time there was a lot of respect for the mother who chose to be at home and now it is frowned upon and she is treated like a fool. It is a career choice and no one can make light of it! Be you a doctor, an engineer, a scientist or a mother it is a job and like all jobs it deserves respect! I despise people who make fun of stay at home mothers! Next time someone makes light of it remind them that behind every man there is a Domestic Goddess and without her the world would be filled with dirty linen ans soiled dishes!
This is a copy of an artical I read about stay at home mothers.... Stay-at-home moms are in need of some nurturing. We battle a social stereotype as lazy, uninteresting, and ineffectual. We worry that we are wasting our education and standing still amid a surge of feminist progress.
We have seen a lot of articles applauding mothers who go to work each day. Rarely do we see an article that celebrates those who stay-at-home. Here are just a few reminders of the ways your selflessness and sacrifices make a difference.
Staying home means
More time with children and the ability to get more involved in school and activities, which can become a cornerstone for your child's social activities and social development.
Being there for the milestones. You'll be there when they walk, talk, giggle, and want to know the answers to all kinds of questions.
More input. Monica Jones is a stay-at-home mother of two in Vienna, Virginia. She holds a masters degree in mathematics and left a career with a consulting company to stay home with her children. This is definitely a case of if you want the job done right, you have to do it yourself. Jones says. Each set of parents has an idea of what right is -- how they want their children to be raised and the values they want to instill in their children. No one can raise children the way parents want except the parents themselves.
Health benefits. Stay-at-home moms have an easier time breastfeeding and may be able to breastfeed longer, which means more health benefits for kids. Also, expect fewer doctor bills, since children don't come in contact with as many viruses and bacteria at home.
Improved quality of life. Staying at home can mean reduced stress from a slower, less frantic pace and quality family time'a real benefit for Jones: We have more family time on the weekends because we don't have to take care of the house-cleaning, bill-paying, etcetera, that I did during the week, she says.
Improved communication. My children and I have a wonderful relationship built on mutual trust, respect, and love, says Silvia Brugge, a stay-at-home mother of three. I believe that the everyday situations, struggles, and ups and downs have created an environment in which our communication is very good.
More time for spiritual needs. You can serve the community as a volunteer. You can pursue hobbies and personal interests without a heavy weight of guilt. And you might find it easier to help your parents as they get older, as well.
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