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Role of in-laws:Can I leave kids with in-laws when in hospital?
2001-02-07
Name: Ramya



I will be hospitalised soon and am sending my 10 and 12 year olds to my mother-in-laws place because I dont want to upset them. Is it alright to shield my children from seeing their mother unwell or would it toughen them up?
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2001-02-07
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Anonymous Name: charu
Subject:  Can I leave kids with in-laws when in hospital?



Nothing wrong in shielding them. there r many other ways to toughen them up. seeing ma in the hospital will definitely upset them alot so if your inlaws are willing, let your children stay with them. maybe they can visit you when youre feeling - and looking! better.
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2001-02-07
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Anonymous Name: kalyani
Subject:  Can I leave kids with in-laws when in hospital?



yes. But you should let them come to the hospital at visiting hours so they see you are all right and they dont worry even more.
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2001-03-20
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Anonymous Name: amber
Subject:  leaving kids with in laws



Hi there,

There is nothing wrong with leaving kids with the in laws if you feel they can give them the support and love to get them through this difficult times however you should let your kids know about your sickness and how long it will take for you to become better. Life is its ways to toughen people up. Look after yourself.

Regards,
Amber
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