You are here: Home > Message Boards > Parents of Schoolgoers >  Role of in-laws >For pooja

Parents of Schoolgoers  Discussion Forum

 
Role of in-laws:For pooja
2006-06-23
Name: kuku xyz



same thing happen with me when my inlaws were here.I had C-section when I came back from hospital my whole kitchen was changed.it was totally upside down, she started telling me how to keep the things and where to keep the things. she even asked me not to use dish washer.and I just had c-section.whenever I go out and come back i always find her in my bedroom or in my closet.for the very first one month she said that you should not cook and touch the food and she herself cook the food,it was nice of her but she put lot of mirchi and spices inspite of telling her that it gives me heartburn and I can't eat. she replied me that My son like this I have to also think about him. My husband is mamma boy he thinks that whatever she is doing is right. and she is doing this coz she loves him. you guys won't beleive how these MIL behaves On our first night she started knocking the door in middle of night and started complaining that I am sick,I am having bloodpressure, I get scared when my son is locked inside, could you beleve this Amother is scared of 30 yr old son is locked inside with none other than his wife. I thought she was really sick but when she came here for six month she did'nt allow my husband to sleep in same room with me. My FIl also used to check every mail every sale, every paystub doc bill.her story is neverending for me.I think you are doing right thing,I never said a word to her. But still she was not happy with me.I am also In US pooja you can write to me My ID is reply_back_me at Yahoo dot com
Subscribe to this conversation Reply Anonymously


 This message has not received any replies yet. Why don't you post a reply!

All tips on Parents of Schoolgoers
You ever wanted in one place.
No need to go anywhere else.
& Answers to Topic :
For pooja


Subscribe to this conversation! All tips on Parents of Schoolgoers
You ever wanted in one place.
No need to go anywhere else.
& Answers to Topic :
For pooja


Subscribe to this conversation! All tips on Parents of Schoolgoers
You ever wanted in one place.
No need to go anywhere else.
& Answers to Topic :
For pooja

Thanks for subscribing
You are already a member, please login to subscribe

------ OR ------

Expecting Parents
Parents of Babies
Last 7 Posts of this Board
How to deal with this?
I feel that my husbands parents are using their son. My husband is from India and I am from the USA. He obtained his greencard and citizenship through me after coming here. He is a physician and obtained his residency training. I worked to earn for our family for two years until he got his job. Then he applied for his parents to visit us on a visiting visa. We were both wo... - Tina Shah [View Message]
RE:self centered inlaws
I agree they have completely double standards as I recently found out. I saw my husbands childhood photos when he was young. His parents claim they sacrificed everything for their kids and lived poor and behave like martyr parents. Got treated as free domestic servant. But the photos showed them dressed like Bollywood stars with watches and jewellery enjoying their life. O... - Tina [View Message]
RE:self centered inlaws
Karma has no menu. You get served what you deserve. ... - Tina [View Message]
RE:Jadu on food?
Hi , I am facing the same thing.. I married my husband and we are not only from different caste but also different country. My in-laws are so nice to me on face but I can sense the jealousy and that inferiority majorly in my mother in law and my sister in law.. I never had such doubts but I experienced pain sadness , depression while they use to be nice .. and it was confu... - Noname [View Message]
RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
you think that excess sugar given to him by your mother in law, and thats why you are worried about your son, so dont take stress of this thing, your son is little now, after some years, he will stop eating sugar by selfly.... - nandita [View Message]
RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
if you are dont like your mother in law behaviour then tell her on face, that you dont whenever she gave sugar to her son, so she may be stop giving sugar to him, and your porblem will be sort out.... - kamna [View Message]
RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
if you are rudely talking with her, then this is not way to talking with your mother in law, you tell her in polite way, your son is her grand son, so she never think about his bad effects.... - ruchita [View Message]

Home | Site Map | Privacy Policy | Comments or Suggestions | Indiaparenting News Articles | Contact Us | Advertise with Us | RSS
Copyright © 1999 - 2022 India Parenting Pvt. Ltd.