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Role of in-laws:Greed Part 2
2006-02-20
Name: Anu



Hi everybody,

THanks for all your tips and suggestion. Regarding my MIL and her jewellery obsession, it is unbelivable. She is the one telling me that Punditji has told her that she needs to wear diamonds they are good for her :-). That all her life she could not afford it(which is true) and now she can and wants to. The other thing I realized it that when I am not at home, she talks to my husband and gets the info. Now she knows how much we paid for some of my daily use jewellery and has increased her demand of how much she wants jewellery to cost.
She tells me that at the end it will be me or my sil (who dare not spend a single $ on her parents)we reimburse her for even a dollar shopping that mil does when she is at her daughter, will get the jewelery.
I don't mind giving her some but expecting to spend so much $ in her seems nothing but waste of money to me.
The good thing is that my husband is an intelligent guy and we agree and work together on the matter.
Thanks for all your help.


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