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Role of in-laws:time is running out!!

2006-01-21

Name: vinnie hii all
i m a desperate lady, married and spending each day in hell burning and crying for help. i m pregnant at present, and before i had somehow tried to overcome all the problems created by my inlaws but now it is impossible. i have even tried committing suicide but in vain. my marital life is a hell n now i think life is a shit and instead of waiting to get my kismat stars shining i need to do everything by myself
now i have realisd that y shud i kill my self becoz of some gud for nothing nasty ppl who are not even going to cry after i die. now my circumstances have become soo miserable that i will have to abort my child. as i m not even allowed to stand in the balcony of my house, going out is a big deal i cant even think of. can any1 suggest me any gud technique of self induced abortion. plzz i shall be really thankful to u all. im in my 16-17 week and i request you to plz suggest me some remedy. or else i dont know what will i end up doing,,,,
in wait of ur replies
thanking one and all

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2006-02-08

Name: hi
Subject:

please don'tr

hi vinne

dear, don't think about abortion. please dear. your child is your gift from god.

believe me dear, everybody has a purpose in life. like that the lttle life formed in your womb.

he/she is loooking towards u to take care.TOTALLY HELPLESS WITHOUT THE MOTHER SO INSPITE OF EVERY HARDSHIPS, STAND FOR YOUR CHILD

DEAR, I KNOW HOW DESPARARATE U R SO U TOOK THAT DECISION. BUT DEAR, DON'T THINK SO
SURE A LGHT'LL COME. EVERY DARKSIDE HAS A BRIGHT SIDE.

BE OP[YIMISTIC. PRAY BE POSITIVE.
CARE THE LTTLE ONE IN YOUR WOMB.

EVERYTHING'LL BE OK. SURE. SHARE UR WORRIES.

BE BRAVE
LOTS OF LUV AND A BIG HUG

2006-01-31

Name: K.Radha
Subject:

NO PLS NO

Vinnie if you try to kill that baby there is every chance you'll end up killing yourself. Nothing in life is so bad that we need to resort to that. My goodness, your life is priceless and you've passed on that value to your child. Please, I beg you, dont do anything silly like this. PLEASE!!! Come to the message boards and talk with people, so many are here to help and WANT to help.

What is so wrong with your life? What can we do or say to help you find a way to deal with it? Truly you are NOT alone in your suffering. There are many women here who are going through tough times, probably some in positions very much the same as yours. Please come here and try to connect to the many who care. Try.

With Much Love

2006-01-23

Name: friend
Subject:

Contact Details

Dear Vinnie!
Reading your post I thought of how much pain you are probably undergoing. Please post your contact details or mail me at help_women_all@yahoo.co.in and let me know of your contact details. Let us be able to help you.

2006-01-21

Name:
Subject:

Take it easy

hey vinnie

please don't take any extreme step. Relax. Sleep well. Yes, its difficult living with nasty inlaws. Have faith in god. Try to put your mind in positive/cheerful/refreshing activities. Look after yourself well.

best wishes

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