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Hi Girls

I've come up with the following after a lot of thinking:

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For those girls whose MIL constantly keeps trying to make the DIL look bad infront of the husband etc ... read on..

Best thing to do here is to give as good as you get.
The way the MILs are witches in our husband's absence, we should be the same to them in our husband's absence. When the husband is around.. be really sweet and nice to them. Say good things about them to your husband. Constantly keep asking your husband how they are etc..
When your husband is just about to get home.. offer to give your MIL a massage so you're actually in the process of doing so when he arrives at home. And then he'll see that you actually care for her etc.
This way when the MIL tries to speak ill of you, the husband will take your side than hers. He will realise who the bad person is. No matter how much in your heart you hate your MIL, don't say this to your husband. This will make him take your MIL's side more.

So basically give as good as you get!!!
And beat them at their own game.
So go on girls, put this into practice instead of suffering.

All the best of luck to my fellow sisters out there. May the force be with you. loveguru replied. hey you, keep your dirty advice with yourself, as this can misguide others and they can spoil their lives.
everbody is not in a same condition as you are, some may have doubts in family and they need proper advice,not this kind of shit ways.
nazia replied. thats a good peice of advice!
if i ever have in laws like that...god forbid.....
i would definetly try this out...lolz