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2005-01-22

Name: tensed mom some one plzz help...
my son is 3 years n 2 mths old...he is too active.he is my only son n my whole day is spent only with him.he refuses to pick up his toys,he bites a lot,uses his hands on everybody,he screams a lot n the worst of all he hates to do his homework..
i have tried all the possible ways to explain to him about his such annoying habits but all in vain...my hair is turning grey!!!moreover,he is comparatively slow and weaker than his other friends(regarding only studies)other wise he picks up things nn fast..
someone plzz help how to handle him for he takes away all my patience.

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some one plzz help...
my son is 3 years n 2 mths old...he is too active.he is my only son n my whole day is spent only with him.he refuses to pick up his toys,he bites a lot,uses his hands on everybody,he screams a lot n the worst of all he hates to do his homework..
i have tried all the possible ways to explain to him about his such annoying habits but all in vain...my hair is turning grey!!!moreover,he is comparatively slow and weaker than his other friends(regarding only studies)other wise he picks up things nn fast..
someone plzz help how to handle him for he takes away all my patience. Girish Pattanshetti replied. Dear Madam,

I hope behavioural changes occur in children due to parents, this is for sure, It totally depends on parents. The moment the child starts misbehaving, parents keep observing till they become angry on child and scold them not to do this not to do that, dont go out since i an here with you, play with me, etc, etc.

You have to leave the child free, leave him to play what ever he wants only thing you have to do is keep talking to him, you convince him about what he should not do? why? what are the harms while saying this you have to talk sweetly. It takes long time to change the strange behaviour into good. Keep patience. Children require respect as elders do require.

This is my suggestion, I have gon through this. Give it a try!

Girish. Padmavathi replied. One thing that I don't understand is that all the mothers are comparing their child with other of their chid's age. This is absolutely wrong. Have you yourselves compared you with your next door neighbour?

I accept that children are more active and purposefully do those things which annoy us. Here is our test to be patient. Your son is also doing the same. Just be patient. Do not scold him nor help him out in cleaning his toys for a day or two. All the toys will be thrown in the house. Just take him and love him. Also show him how his toys are spread all over the room and say him that he will get some good reward if he keeps all the toys in one place. And he should be rewarded with words and also with some gift immediately as soon as he keeps his toys. The same way you can do for his homework and other things.

Just try and let me know. Happy motherhood. . .

2005-09-19

Name: Girish Pattanshetti
Subject:

Your Querry

Dear Madam,

I hope behavioural changes occur in children due to parents, this is for sure, It totally depends on parents. The moment the child starts misbehaving, parents keep observing till they become angry on child and scold them not to do this not to do that, dont go out since i an here with you, play with me, etc, etc.

You have to leave the child free, leave him to play what ever he wants only thing you have to do is keep talking to him, you convince him about what he should not do? why? what are the harms while saying this you have to talk sweetly. It takes long time to change the strange behaviour into good. Keep patience. Children require respect as elders do require.

This is my suggestion, I have gon through this. Give it a try!

Girish.

2005-03-02

Name: Padmavathi
Subject:

im possible behaviour

One thing that I don't understand is that all the mothers are comparing their child with other of their chid's age. This is absolutely wrong. Have you yourselves compared you with your next door neighbour?

I accept that children are more active and purposefully do those things which annoy us. Here is our test to be patient. Your son is also doing the same. Just be patient. Do not scold him nor help him out in cleaning his toys for a day or two. All the toys will be thrown in the house. Just take him and love him. Also show him how his toys are spread all over the room and say him that he will get some good reward if he keeps all the toys in one place. And he should be rewarded with words and also with some gift immediately as soon as he keeps his toys. The same way you can do for his homework and other things.

Just try and let me know. Happy motherhood. . .

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