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Role of in-laws:Hi friends !

2005-03-28

Name: suchita
Dear friends,
Thanks August born,sv and v1 for your support.
Now a days I am in India and finding a match for my SIL.
Just an hour before my SIL was complaining that I sleep a lot. Due to pregnancy as soon as i go to bed i get fast asleep. I have told her that this happens due to increased metabolism many times.
i go to bed at 10 O'clock at night and get up at 6:30 or 7 O'clock. and if I won't get up my elder SIL knocks the door till i get up because she has to get her two kids ready for school.
I am sharing bedroom with the middle one (whom i am searching a match) but she knocks the door only till i get up.
Isn't this strange?

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2005-03-28

Name: augustborn
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how are you

Hey suchita
Good to hear from you...hope you are taking care of yourself. Remember eating and sleeping well is good for your baby and should be of first importance to you so act accordingly...
When are you going to your parents place...

Take care!

2005-03-28

Name: Suchita
Subject:

I had been to my parents place when i came here first time but i stayed only for 1 and half day that's all. Anyway i am taking care of myself but now a days i am experiencing lot of mood swings. I don't express it. I take all that in. Me and my husband chat daily but he just talks regarding the work( may be because he is at the office while we chat)that makes me sad. He enquires about my SIL's kids. All my friends in us ask me about the baby, whether i am feeling the movements but I didn't get to hear anything from him or my IL's.
what should i do ?

2005-03-28

Name: friend
Subject:

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tell her not to disturb u and go back to sleep. tell her at this time you want yourself and baby to be safe and u want to take rest, if she continues to talk, ask her to go out of the room and talk so that u wont get disturbed. learn to answer back. that will only save u. if i had not answered my inlaws back, probably i would have died.

2005-03-28

Name: Suchita
Subject:

Hello friend !

friend
Thanks for ur advice but i don't want to spoil my mind by getting into a mess.
I want to think good at this time even though anybody is thinking bad about me. That's why i write to all of u and empty my mind. Friends you have to tolerate my mood swings for few more days. Help me be good.

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