Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi,
When we used to make love, earlier we used condoms. Now when we are planning to have a baby, without condom my penis hurts (gets inflammed after in 8 hours after the intercourse). She lubrcates well during foreplay. Its only the entry the issue, as we see it. Initially we tried providing extra lubrication by using my saliva. But then we thought it was a spermicide and then we tried using a commercial product from J&J called \";KY Jelly\";. We had sex during the fertile days in the last month but she did not conceive. What could be the issue? Could the jelly be causing the problem? Archie replied. Dear AG.,
To be honest, ttc can be stressful at times.

Let me also mention very clearly so that you don't get confued in future that there is only 20% chance to conceive at each round of ovulation. This is why Dr. will ask you to give a trial for a year without any contraceptives. As the chances will enhance in process or you can hit the success in the period. It's considered that you are trying in her fertile days.

Not conceiving in single cycle is perfectly normal and nothing to be panicked about.

I don't know if used product will affect conceiving processs. If this doubt will drive you more in stress then better you avoid using this product.

You can speak to Dr. if you want to and get some prescription for authentic lubricant.

You can try to use lubricant before her fertile days and and avoid soon she enters in fertile days. If you combine her orgasm before your penetration during her fertile days would enhance chances.

You don't have any problem unless you fail to get her pregnant even after trying for a year in her fertile days. You may want to use some Ovulation Prediction Kit to guideline you about fertile days.
Good luck
Archie v replied. yu pinpoint yur problem.