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Anorexia

Anorexia nervosa or anorexia, is an eating disorder which mostly affects teenagers. Children have wrong perception of reality so they suffer from low self esteem. They continuously strive to reduce weight by dieting and exercising. Read on to know more about this.


Anorexia nervosa or anorexia, as we commonly know it, is an eating disorder that is largely prevalent among women aged 15 to 35. The illness essentially entails starving oneself to death, in order to lose weight and consequently build up self-esteem. For some obvious social notions that regard thin as attractive, anorexia afflicts a higher number of girls from age 12 to early teens.

The disease starts innocently enough. The victim wakes up one morning, looks at herself in the mirror, and decides she could do with getting rid of that 'fat'. If she just loses some weight, every thing would be perfect. So she goes on a diet and starts an exercise regime. But it doesn't stop when she's shed those few extra kilos. She continues seeing herself as fat, ignoring the perceptions of regular body weight. When she weighs about 85% of what is considered normal for her age and height, is hyperactive and exercises a lot to continue burning calories, but still cannot get rid of the nagging certainty that she is 'fat and ugly', you know she has a problem.

Anorexia is usually accompanied by hyperactivity, hypothermia, and amenorrhea.


Hyperactivity

This is when anorexics exercise frantically to lose whatever little weight they are left with.


Hypothermia

This results when the fat cells, which are the body's natural insulation, become non-existent and the victim starts feeling cold all the time. As a result, the body develops a light coating of fur on the body, to retain whatever little body warmth it can.


Amenorrhea

Amenorrhea sets in when a woman misses at least three menstrual cycles. Loss of monthly menstrual periods is typical in anorexic women while men with anorexia often become.


Nipping it in the bud

Sadly anorexia is not usually 'nipped in the bud', as it is not recognised until it spirals out of control. Parents of anorexics don't realise initially what their child is going through, as a desire to lose weight by diet and exercise is normal enough. Almost every one goes through a weight-losing spree at some point in life, but with anorexics, it becomes an obsession. Their distorted perception of reality makes them see themselves as fat, even when they are rake thin. They look at themselves in the mirror and they don't see their protruding rib cages - they see the skin on it - and identify it as fat. The fear of being seen as fat continues even when the person is near death from starvation. They won't eat even when suffering from acute hunger pangs. Further, anorexics often wear loose, baggy clothes to hide their 'fat' body, so one doesn't immediately realise how much weight the child has lost.


Change in attitude towards anorexics

The general perception that anorexics are vain and obsessed with their looks needs to be changed, and anorexia needs to be recognised as a serious and potentially fatal disease that requires treatment. Anorexics are usually controlled people who are perfectionists but have low self-esteem. Their body weight, shape and size is directly related to how good they feel about themselves. This is usually because of troubled family situations, perhaps childhood abuse or parents telling their child that he or she should lose weight, children at school teasing one because of some extra weight, or just people who are more sensitive and tend to have trouble coping with stress. If a child suffers from anorexia, family members should not let the eating disorder become a hidden, secret problem. Instead, they should talk openly and with obvious concern to the young woman about the situation as early as possible.


Treatment

Group therapy seems to be one of the more effective methods of treatment as women in the same situation get together to speak about their experiences and share their fears.

If anorexia has reached the extent that the person's life is in any danger because of starvation, immediate hospitalisation should be considered even if the victims are dead against it (which they are if they fail to recognise that they have a problem).

All doctors who treat an individual suffering from anorexia need to be co-operative and supportive of the patient's efforts throughout treatment. It may not be easy to gain the victims' co-operation, especially if they have been brought to treatment against their will. While this can be one of the most difficult aspects of treatment with this individual, building a trusting and supportive relationship with him or her is likely the most important part of treatment.
 
 

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Name: Nancy
Country: USA

my 11 -year-old granddaughter has been diagnosed wih an eating disorder, which i assumeis anorexia. what can i do to help?
 
Name: connolly
Country: Australia

disgusting
 
Name: Cynthia
Country: Netherlands

ik weet dat jullie dit niet kunne lezen want ik kom uit nederland k moet mijn spreekbeurt over anorexia houde en alles wat ik lees daarvoor heeft mijn egt geraakt kheb t egt met jullie mee...
 
Name: louise frances
Country: Other

hey i suffer from anorexia and it isnt good any 1 who has got anorexia needs to seek help straight away as it just gets worse and worse.
 
Name: jflexa(not my real name,obviously)
Country: England

some people don't realise they have it and although at the time they might hate you for it, they really need help
 
Name: carmel
Country: Canada

my 11 year old daughter is anorexic and it is the scariest thing we have ever went through i think it is great to have articles like this for people like me to see and understand as much as possible
 
Name: Miranda
Country: USA

im 12 and i want to know why does every one make anorexia such a big deal dont you know us ppl are already suffering through enough you dont need to have it being a hot topic across the world i was diagnosed 5 months ago my original weight was 115 and 5"3' i went all the way down to 72 lbs ive realizesdi needed help and right now i weigh almost 85 but i dont see why they have theese types of web adresses and stuff cuz its not such a big deal
 
Name: ann
Country: USA

my husbands 10 years old daughter has bee diagnosed with anorexia we have been doing everything her pediatrician tells us to do what else can we do to help her?
 
Name: ann
Country: USA

my husbands 10 years old daughter has bee diagnosed with anorexia we have been doing everything her pediatrician tells us to do what else can we do to help her?
 
Name: Connor
Country: australia

i think this is unfair! 1 year ago i got obsessed with my wieght and got anorexia nervosa and i couldn't help it i couldn't even look at myself in the mirror and people say it's disgudting well heres something for you!we cant help it! even though we need to stop we cant and people obsessing about it like its a "hot topic" isn't helping at all so when you are thinking about it please dont ruin your life by not eating because my friend almost died from it !
 
Name: Concerned Parent
Country: usa

it isnt just a 'girl' illness my son is 13 and he is anorexic. this is mainly to do with peer pressure. in todays society if u arent a standard height weight etc u r mocked and this is what has happened to him. its a sad day when its not good enough just to be urself.
 
Name: natasha
Country: united kingdom

hi i read the information and i think people shouldnt do things to them selfs that way you are hew you are and just because you think you are fat although you are skinny doesnt change hew you are my advise is ask your self a question do you really want to die by makeing yoursalf ill and i think you all should be happy with your body
 
Name: jkjk
Country: macao

lalalala boooring
 
Name: me
Country: australia

my sister has changed alot in this past year and im considerably worried about her as she refuses to eat tihngs like bread ,rice and anything else with carb its a really scary thinng when you see your 16 yr old sister lie to her mother about eating her lunch and slipping it into her school bag. i just dont know howe to react or understand her i dont think she is very concerned with her weight she eats lots of of beans and salid but barely nothing else and she seems awfully sad i feel like im the only one whos noticing it i cant just pretend everything is normal and go along with it all in a big lie wearinga smile across my face im worried about her and noboody else seems to notice thats what i cnat seem to understand:( from fat.i.am@hotmail .com
 
Name: Caroline
Country: greece

my daughter suffers from anorexia. its a terrible desease. someone please tell us how to raise her self esteem. we are desperate.
 
Name: ani girl
Country: usa

i am 13 and i am very close to bascially dieing.because im anorexic i feel like i dont belong this girl came up to me and said i am doing a report on anorexia and i really need some help you look anorexic an you tell me a little more about it. i felt sad in side but then again i was happy that some one noticed me for being skinny.
 
Name: anorexia chick
Country: usa

i have suffered from anorexia for 15 years and i am 27 now i have been suffering anorexia because of mental abuse from peers i really want to get help but i just cant when so many people know me as skinny and not fat any more.
 
Name: jenny
Country: united kingdom

i think anorexia a need to control an aspect of life that is controllable. when we rely on others who are maybe not living up to our needs and we can not have the things that we desire most in life, we may control life in the definite way of anorexia and see then definite certain results.
 
Name: jojo
Country: Other

have you ever thought about why people do this to themselves. have you ever tried to figure out why they starve themselves. it's not because they want to. noone wants to. when you are born, you have perfectly fine self-esteem. no baby thinks they are not good enough. it is this world that snatches people's innocence. fools them. it is this world...anorexics are people, with a heart, and this world constantly chips away at their heart. anorexics, these humans, thirst for love, for someone who notices them. they feel lost, somehow forgotten by everyone, because people don't see them. yes, people do see there bodies, they hear their voices, yet they never "see" there soul, begging for help. they never "listen" to their pleas, pleading for love, for someone that understands. you may think that you are the best parent in the world. tell me, what is it that your child wants most in the world. tell me, what is it? what is it truely? what does your daughter/son truely think of you? do they really think that you are the best mommy/daddy in the world. tell me, why truely is your child starving themself. if you say you don't know, you will be lying to yourself. these people, are living...they can feel things like love, anger, hatred, pity...when it seems like noone cares, they stop caring. there natural self esteem, the one they were born with, deteriorates, and they began to stop feeling, not because they physically can't feel, or because they want to hurt anyone else, it is because they want to hurt themselves, because they feel nonexistent.
 
Name: Lela
Country: U.S.A.

anorexia nervosa is a mental disorder with one of the highest mortality rates. unfortunately, many people assume people with this disorder simply want attention or are 'selfish' or 'disgusting' although many are quick to blame television and the media for 'causing' the disease, anorexia nervosa actually goes back many centuries. there were women who started fasting to feel 'pure' or closer to god and ended up dying of starvation. some started fasting for other reasons, but certainly not becasue a super model was on the cover of a magazine. they didn't have that in the 1600's. anyway, some of the comments here are very ignorant. if you have the disease or know someone who does, start to learn everything you can about it. fact people do die from this disease even those who don't die may suffer irreparable damage, including but not limited to gastroparesis, nerve damage, damage to the heart or kidneys, chronic esophagitis or gerd, sterility, osteoporois and fractures, stunted growth and/or memory loss. people do not choose anorexia nervosa. they may have a certain personality type that is more susceptible to developing this condition. in a certain type of environment (i.e. abusive or neglectful) the behaviors may be triggered. it is a big deal. i wish everyone here who has been strugglign the best of luck with your recovery
 
Name: Rita
Country: USA

i am wondering if my 9 year old child is anorexic because she has gotten really skinny, and everyone seems to have a comment about it. they look at her like "whoa" and say how much she has slimmed down. i am taking steps to give her more attention, and made her a doctors appointment. we are not going to keep it a secret, we will talk very openly about it, trying not to imbarrass her. please don't ignore it if you feel something might be wrong. children are crying out for help, so help them now so that they dont have more problems later.
 
Name: kelly
Country: Germany

sometimes im jealous at anorectic people, because they can control themselves. but on the other hand, they do not control themselves at all because they cannot stop dieting anymore. i think its terrible when young children already suffer from anorexia, and i wonder if it is caused by the media, that spread the idealism of being thin. but ive also read that anorexia is genetically caused... i would like to lose a little weight, but i would set a limit, but anorectic people donnot have a limit anymore.
 
Name: kimberly
Country: U.S.A.

i think i have a problem because i have lost 10 ounds in less than 2 to 3 weeks and my mom is getting worried about me but i dont think anything of it until i look in the mirror and realize what i have done!
 
Name: Fatema
Country: Afghanistan

those suffering from anorexia are in need of help and proper guidance. unfortunately, many anorexics don't know where to look for an eating disorder treatment center that can offer them the help they need. anorexia help can be found in many different places ranging from anorexia help forums, to help professionals and anorexia treatment centers. one excellent source of anorexia help is the anorexia treatment facility, casa palmera, located in del mar, california. receiving anorexia help is of the utmost importance for those suffering from anorexia. anorexia is a life-threatening disorder and often can not be cured without proper anorexia help. to determine if you or someone you love needs anorexia help, it is important to be able to recognize the signs and symptoms of anorexia.
 
Name: Amisha
Country: India

very good article.


 

 
 
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