Anyone can become an effective public speaker. It takes practice and dedication. Read on.
Dale Carnegie, the hugely successful motivational writer says, "The ability to conquer nervousness and speak with self confidence is not a gift bestowed by providence on only a few rarely endowed individuals.
Every one can develop his own latent capacity if he has sufficient desire to do so."
You too can become an effective public speaker. Here are a few tips:
Straight talk
Make your content simple and effective. It is far easier to use
difficult words than to write or speak in a simple, unpretentious
manner. In a recent article published in Readers Digest
several examples were given to illustrate how foolish bombastic words
can sound. 'Emanating from a culinary vessel into a site of pyrogenic
activity' is simply is a round about way of saying - Out of the frying
pan and into the fire.
Vocabulary
If you want to write effectively, improve your vocabulary. You can do
that by reading books on a wide variety of subjects. Make your
dictionary and thesaurus your trusted friends. Dip into them whenever
you come across a new word. You will soon start enjoying this hunt for
words and meanings.
Eye Contact
Speakers often avoid looking at the audience and look at the
fan, outside the window, at the floor and practically everywhere else
except where they should actually be looking. The audience feels
alienated and switches off.
Battling butterflies
Most speakers feel nervous, especially during the beginning of
the speech. When you feel butterflies doing a tango in your stomach,
search for a friendly face in the crowd and, fixing your eyes on him or
her, start your speech. Then quickly look for a few more friendly faces
across the audience and let your eyes address them. A positive response
such as a friendly nod or a smile should ease your nervousness. Once
the butterflies have flown away let your gaze sweep across the audience
and get ready to sweep them off their feet with your oratorical
brilliance!
Delivery
The delivery of the speech is as important, if not more, than
the content. Make sure you modulate your voice properly. Many speakers
tend to speak in staccato sentences or drone monotonously. Others raise
their voices. Clearly they believe in the dictum that if you can't beat
'em, shout (at) 'em!
Learning the right way to modulate your voice takes a lot of
practise.
Practice speaking in front of a mirror. Tape your speech and listen to
it. These little exercises will help you iron out wrinkles in your
modulation.
Accent is another area where many speakers flounder. Speak in
your natural accent. Even if it doesn't sound like the Queen's English,
it doesn't matter. You can always strive for improvement. But never put
on an accent. It sounds terribly artificial and distracts the audience
from your speech.
Make sure your posture is also your natural one. The audience
will see through an artificial stance sooner or later. Remember, the
audience is your customer and you are the product. It is going to view
you as a complete package. Every aspect of your speech: your style,
your personality and your attitude, is going to make an impact.
Dedication
If you want to excel in public speaking
you should be prepared to work with a lot of patience and focus.
Demosthenes used to lisp. To improve his speech he would put pebbles in
his mouth and practise his speech at night for hours on end. This
indomitable will to win made him one of the greatest orators of all
ages.
Recipe
Take a speech with an impressive content, mix it with a good
vocabulary, add a sprinkle of humour, stir it in your own words, add it
to your memory, warm it on the hot plate of commitment and serve it
with the correct amount of confidence, modulation, accent and attitude.
And then, wait for the applause to follow.......
Name:
Maria
Country: united kingdom
excellent article!
Name:
Validictrian student
Country: Singapore
i am to make a speech as a validictrian student of my college. it is one of my greatest honours yet one of the nerve wrecking ones. this article has helped me deal with it . thanks and i eant to see meore