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Name: Amber
Country: U.S.A.
My 19month old is afraid of leaves, trees, flowers, bushes, plants, I have a small hand size statue of a butterfly and flower, she is afraid to look at it. She screams and after you can feel little Trimbles in her body. We first noticed this when we went to the children's museum. We took her near some plants in the garden area she screamed so loud I was scared someone would call the police on us.

Name: Jenn
Country: U.S.A.
My daughter was terribly afraid of monsters at night. Recently we purchased the Monster Security System. From the very first night, as if by magic, it provided her with the confidence to sleep through the night! It has been great. Check out www.monstersecuritysystem .com

Name: kamini
Country: India
my 4 yr old son has cerebral palsy. he has achieved all the milestones but the only obstacle for him is his fear. he is very scared of standing or walking if we r not around. even if he sits in the chair without a table infront he gets scared. his fear is his only enemy....we as parents have tried both polite and harsh talk with him over the 3 yrs but his fear stays put. dont know what to do. how can i make him overcome his fear of falling? plz help.

Name: chiragi
Country: india
my two year daughter was terrified by fire crackers.but very patiently i made her sit on my laps,whereass my husband fired small small crackers near us and we both explained her about me being with her and it's not going to harm her can you imagine within 2 days she started firing the small crackers by herself.

Name: Sharda Ramlackhan
Country: usa
sometimes a child is not just afraid of fireworks, or dog barking. they are afraid of many low and high frequency sounds. such sounds include fireworks, dog barking, babies crying, children and people voices, lawn mowers, vacum cleaners, drills, rain falling, thunder, fire drills and fire engines, sirens, telephone ringing. low frequency sounds such as people breathing, chewing, swallowing, referigerator humming, computer and printer, washing maching etc. i am a practitioner in auditory integration training, with this procedure i desensitize the children's hearing. an intense program of sound stimulation varying in pitch and intensity(using music and headphones), activates the middle and inner ear which then transmits sound to the brain via the auditory nerve. the sound stimulation improves aural flexibility and enhances the transmission of sound to the brain. in the auditory system, going from the eardrum to the brain cells, concise zones exist corresponding to low-pitches and high-pitches tones. these parts are not anatomically similar on the eardrum, on the cochlea, and perhaps in the brain itself. if one or the other of these areas of the auditory system is stimulated by certain programmed alternating sounds, the same identical result as that obtained by mobilization of the elbow is achieved. if anyone wants further information on ait or my upcoming session in chennai in january, they can correspond with me via email: shardaears@aol.com also visit my website at: www.autismusa.com please read my comments in speech, hearing and vision development site of the page. sharda ramlackhan, m.a. 54 jennifer road, lowell, ma 01854-2106 tel: 978-458-3277

Name: Krishna
Country: india
i have two daughters. my elder daughter used to hit things to my younger daughter about a year back, when she was 3 years old. once my wife locked her in bathroom for 5 minutes. since than she has stoped hiting my younger daughter, but cannot stay alone in any room. she has developed fear of being locked by somebody. she is also very much scared of her mother. can any one suggest some way to remove her fear of being locked in room. my e-mail: oiltrade@vsnl.com thanks!

Name: Janaki
Country: india
parents are also responsible in building up fears in the child. for example,if a childis too fusy to have food, the mother tries to feed her by calling all ghosts(gogaya), ghurka, lion etc. sometimes, it so happens the child will not head to elders unless she is scared of the above things. hence , elders should realize that they should not contribute in building up the fears in the child.

Name: Seema
Country: india
my son gets scared and anxious of many small things like not wearing full sleaves shirts and full pants, going to school and gets disturbed at night too and speaks out related things while sleeping. any suggestions are welcome at seema_mitra@hotail.com

Name: Peggy
Country: usa
my 9 year old daughter has recently developed fears of going into rooms where the lights are not on. she said she is afraid of monsters. she also said she is afraid of trusting. what can i do?

Name: vijayalakshmi
Country: india
my son aged 9 gets up at some nights and seems to be frightened for something for no proper reasons. and he is not aware of that when asked the next morning. he continues to sleep after 3 or 4 minutes after consoling him. valid remedial suggestions are welcome!

Name: Query
Country: india
i would like to know if ait is available in chennai. i am aware of its availablility in states in n india. however, i'd like to recieve information if auditory integration is being done in chennai.

Name: dr.n.sivakumar
Country: india
childhood fears can be teated effectively with bach flower remedies. mimulus is the remedy for fears of known origin i.e. fear of darkness, fear of elders, fear of exams, fear of ghosts, fear of school teacher etc. aspen is the remedy for vague and unknown fears, night mares etc. rock rose is for extreme frights, phobias etc.

Name: uma reddu
Country: india
i have 20months baby boy when ever he saw the other people he scared why

Name: Dhanu
Country: india
my 10 month old son is very scared of lizards.. he just starts screaming hysterically when he sees them. well that has happened just 2-3 times but it made us afraid too.. one more thing is he starts crying when he sees anyone closing a door in front of him.. even when someone else is with him, he's not left alone. i guess it started when i started going back to work.. i think he has associated the action of closing a door to the thought that the person is not coming back again. it makes me feel guilty every day going to work leaving him at home! hope that these fears go away as he grows up.

Name: MY HUBBY IS AFRAID OF CLOWNS AND OF BALL
Country: usa
when erever me and my hubby go to the circus he always covers his ears when a balloon pops or when a clown comes near him.he also hates fireworks.we don't go and watch the fireworks anymore on the 4th of july.

Name: kajol
Country: other
my two year old climbs up the the stairs willingly but is scared of coming down.i've tried holding his hand but he screams and doesn't even come near the stairs.he is even scared of slides.whereas i see kids his age enjoying slides and running down the stairs.

Name: melissa
Country: philippines
my 4 year old son is always developing fears and then very slowly getting over them. first it was the engine on a small boat. he now only likes big boats where he can sit far from the noisy sound. he seem to be improving then all of a sudden he fears the microwave. he covers his ears everytime he has to pass the kitchen. this microwave has ben around since before he was born. he even use to operate it. help

Name: Saransh
Country: canada
i am terrified of dogs and i want to make sure that my son does not grow up to be scared of dogs (he is only 13 months). so i try to go out of my way to show him dogs at close proximity. once a fear takes root, it is difficult to remove.

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
hi i am 13 i know this is kinda weird but i am affraid of satanic demons and posession it is the weirdest thing i know but i am terrified at night and need my dog and i hate the dark any explanation for this pathological fear?

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