Every child can learn a lot when they are appreciated. Encourage your child with these affirmations which he or she definitely needs to hear.In today’s world, not every child is appreciated or even heard. Every day we read stories of child abuse and child labour in the world. Children are an image of God. We should always treat children nicely. Every child deserves to hear a few affirmations which will make his or her confidence grow and bloom.
Here are a few affirmations which your child must get to hear from you.
“You are the light of my life”
Your child should be the centre focus of your life. Your life without them will be so boring. Children bring laughter, fun and beauty into their parent’s life hence do not forget to reiterate to your child that they are the light of your life.
“I will always believe in you”
Always believe in the goodness of your children. Remember that they do not do anything wrong on purpose. Even when they make mistakes, you should not hesitate to encourage them by telling them that it is okay. Believe in them and increase their confidence.
“You handled that situation very bravely”
Children should not be hurt at any cost. Whenever he or she handles a situation well, you should praise them and tell them how wonderful that was and how impressed you are. Some children cry a lot while some are very strong. Encourage your child to be the latter one.
“You care for others deeply”
There is so much to learn from kids. Sometimes they are so loving to animals, to the poor, etc. Some kids go out of the way to help others. They even like to bring home injured pets as you might have noticed. Tell your child how touched you are by his or her actions.
“I am proud to call you my child”
All parents are proud of their children. There is something about them which make parents look forward to going home and ringing the doorbell. Whenever they score well in an examination do not forget to buy them a treat and show how proud you feel.
“We are thankful God gave us you”
Sometimes kids come into parent’s life and completely change them. Perhaps earlier your house was empty with no sound of laughter or running feet. Be thankful to God and tell your children the same. Show your love for kids through your words and actions.
“You are a wonderful listener”
Whenever your
child listens to you patiently without hurrying up, you should feel proud of them. They care about us even when they do not show it by listening to us and obeying parent’s orders. Tell your children that they should continue to listen before speaking as it is a good habit.
“You are born to do great things”
Ever felt that your child could become the next Steve Jobs or Mary Kom? There are inherent talents in every child whether it is in the field of sports, arts, education or anything else. Observe your children carefully and when you watch their achievements, you know in your heart that they also can become great.
“Awesome – that’s what you are”
Whenever your children do something awesome like making you laugh or tickling your funny bone, you should not hesitate to make them know how awesome they are. As kids grow up, they will become more like a friend so do not wait for them to turn adults to tell them that they are perfect and awesome in every way.
In addition, to the above affirmations – you can always
praise your child when they are quick, sharp, intelligent or creative! It takes nothing on your part to do your best. When you bring up your child by using
positive affirmations as part of day-to-day life, your children will become brave, strong and awesome – just the way you hoped. So, do not forget to freely use affirmations which will change their life and make them feel wonderful, loved and content. Let them know that they are God’s greatest blessing and gift and nothing can ever change that.
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