Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hats off to everyone in this group - you are all so brave. I have been a silent reader for a long time. I tried to be brave and face this but now my courage is failing me.. Please help me.
We have done all tests and there does not seem to be any problem. Also done 3 IUI' s. Never thought I would go through this.. I don' t have the strength to go through this any more...Is there any hope for me at all? Please share your success stories - anything to keep me from giving up. Ruby replied. Sowdha,I am trying to concieve from last 15 years ..had 7 ivfs and finally got told by am immunologist that i need to do LIT..I already have had one treatment and going for the 2nd...how many LIT treatments you had before you successfully concieved??
Ruby buttha replied. my marital life is 7yrs.i got 2 abortions and 2 laproscopiesand one hsg still i hope for the best.b' coz when u get ur child u cant see the pain,u get happiness.i beleive we all shuold be brave and take the pain and get the child out of it.so please be positive as mental state is very important to conceive.all the best!!! Subh replied. I went through 6 IUIs and then an IVF I was instructed by my doctor to take complete bedrest for 15 days, which I did.

Also, I kept visualising my child being formed in my womb, I was very positive through these days of waiting and it really helped me! I truly beleive this.

Also of course my doctor! Hats off to her! sowdha replied. I knw how you are feeling... So how long have you been married? I conceived after 8 long yrs and can you imagine the joy our entire families had? only tht i miscarried after 60 days, it was a disaster, my whole world collapsed and then started the long painful journey, whenever i see this site i used to feel so bad and tht i will never have a kid, went thro a treatment called LIT for 6 months, very painful and then took IUI and in the 3rd time i conceived only to miscarry it once agin and then we found tht i had TB of the uterus and then took treatment for it, it was for 9 months and then again IUI and during tht time i found tht i had a block in the right side of the tube and every time i went for follicular monitoring i had the egg in the right side so no use of doing IUI , but kept hopes on and my husband was very supportive he sincerely beleived that we will have our child, prayed to all known and unknown gods, and i still rememebr one sunday i met my gynae and told her i am so frustrated and she said tht we can try for iVF, i totally refused and came home so worried and crying all the way only to find out tht weekend i was pregnant and in the 11th year of my marriage i gave birth to a lovely son. Miracles do happen and pray to god and don' t loose hope, when i delivered i was 32 so don' t give up hope , you will surely have a beautiful child. All the best, and hope i have helped you.

Sowdha