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hi! guys!
mein bhi isehi kashti mein sawar hoon!!!
i and my husband v stay abroad while my ils and my parents r in mumbai! its a messy situation when it cums to go for a vacation! my god i get so worried nand mood off my god..... i just don't like my ils at all ,so much i hate them ki bhagwan agar meko do khoon mhaf kare tho mein in dono fil ,sil ka kar doon!!!
u know they great actors near their son they will talk so sweet that ki mujh par jaan shidhk te hain,and when my hubby is not with me then u shud c how they talk like\"; haan bolo kya kaam hai\"; or else my fil he'll say \"; bahde mein phone karna abhi mujhe fresh hona hai\";
as mein koi aeri geri hoon bahu nahin?
but i don't u'stand y our husband don't u'stand this situation of us..... when v don't like to talk to them on these basis!!!!! my husband will \";\";forget it na tum apna acha karm banao acha chal ke...... not matter how much they insult us ,no matter how bad they behave but v shud be nice...
my god !!!!!!!!!!!!!! xyz replied. It's good that your in-laws behave nicely when your hubby is around. My in-laws really mistreat me when he is around, for them he is the center of attraction then and I am like a trash. This leads to lots of misunderstanding, as he starts insisting how his mom is more loving and caring. His mom keeps saying she has done so many sacrifices for him and always keep kissing his forehead and cuddling him like a small baby.

My fil doesn't even talks to me, once he is done talking with his son he hands over the phone to someone else and doesn't even say hello to me. Now there's no point of discussing this with your husbands, as husbands don't understand that we are being ill treated by their parents. But if our parents (girls) say something wrong even unintentionally they will create a whole scene. My hubby doesn't even talks to my parents and expects that I should talk to his mom/dad every time he calls them, even if they don't want to talk to me. He wants that I should always do sweet talk to them, even if from other side what I hear is just criticism and unnecessary instructions.