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Role of in-laws:never lose self respect

2005-02-07

Name: dec_born Hi everyone,
A thought came to mind and I decided to write it here....never ever lose ur self respect. We are all individuals who deserve to be happy and live life to the full; be it mom, daughter, MIL, DIL even SIL and FIL. No one should take bull shit from anyone. kisi koi hak nahin tumhe faltu main kuuch sunaane ka. After reading mrs Sharma's post, I think she should kick her sons' butt and their wives as well. How dare they behave so disrespectfully with her. with an adult woh bhi!
And for all DILs who suffer, you need to stand up and take care of urself first (and kids if any). duniya ko maaro goli! agar inlaws or for that matter even parents kuch advice de, we need to see whether to follow that or not. They cannot force us to do anything.
pata nahin, just felt like writing this so socha likh doon.
chalo take care!

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2005-02-08

Name: life
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I read this somewhere

\";If people ill-treats you for the first time it is their mistake, if they do it for the second time and again and again, it is your mistake\";

2005-02-08

Name: Diligent
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Yup

I completely agree with you. We must always hold our heads up high. Hight self esteem plays a major role in the way people treat you.

2005-02-07

Name: augustborn
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Respect 'self' first

I read somewhere...

\";There is no relationship in this world greater than your self-respect. If you cant respect 'self' you cannot respect anyone else too\";

2005-02-07

Name: vd
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gather up your self respect

I agree with you.

I always take this as my Mantra. We are group of educated individuals who can very well feel if the opposite person is genuine towards you or not.

Most of the time we are more fearful and do not take the required step. Don't be afraid of any body except god.
ANd we are more afraid of Duniya.

EVen if you cry 24 hours , no body will look at you. You have to show that you are strong willed lady and then you can lead life with dignity.

2005-02-07

Name: vd
Subject:

gather up your self respect

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