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Hi meena,
day before yesterday , in the evening i had pain than went to the hospital and they told me that embryo has half come out and it was 6 weeks pregnancy. i am very depressed since than but today my MIL called me and said now i can work as it has come out now though doc has advised me to take rest for one week.
because of that i had heated arguments with my hubby also as he was favouring my MIL.
i don' t know what i should do? I don' t have taht much strength to talk also. i don' t want to talk to anyone..........but all these relatives r calling me.
at present , i am in my mother' s house and i don' t want to go anywhere?
Hey please tell me what i should do? should i listen to everyone thinking that i have no one to favour me , so i should keep quite? or should i shout abck to everyone saying that dont talk to me now about anything?
tell me please.....
bye,
Nellima sudha replied. hi neelima,
read ur post in loss and misscarriage section too take the amount of rest required as the body need to repair ,we all can understand what happens when there is a loss of a prescious dream as we all have gone through the same at some point of our preg.
if possible keep your mind clr may be go for a brief walk,take up some hobby ,if u like cooking cook something and divert ur mind.R u working or a house wife??? try to take a short vacation when you decide to try again .i would suggest you dont rush into another preg think properly ,grieve out totally ... the baby who will be coming is not a substitute who will ur vacant dream but is a new dream dont cluster that dream ,be calm practice deep breathing and tell urself that u will not get affected by negative energy ,yhings are still raw give some timeand again dont hurry
keep in touch and may god bless you
sudha Meenaa replied. Thats really sad news. Listen to your Dr. Take the required amt of rest. Your MIL should not be telling you when u should get back to work. As for your hubby, patiently explain your feelings to him. Men do not understand what a woman is going through at such times. Try not to get into an argument with anyone as you are emotionally vulnerable right now and should not get hurt further.
Will pray to God to give you strength. Keep in touch. Remember, you have conceived once, and will again. Keep the faith in Him.
Love,
M