I am 24 years old and i think i am pretty young to have a baby..she is 11 months old...i want to know if there is anyone out there who is aroung same age as me who is a mommy?? gauri replied. i cudnt stop myself..putting my comment ...after reading one girls reply that she is 24 n she is mother of 2 kids...4 and 1...can any1 imagine the gae she got mrrd..n had her first baby...i got carried away other wise i wud hv never put my comment...

anyways maybe..i reacted very strong...n its a total personal issue..i hv nothing to do wiht it....

feeling sad about everything...i shoudnt hv done that ... gauri replied. i still cant digest this early mrrg n early babies ...US coz way of living is not like here in india...its very modern...western countries means very independent kind of lifestyle...
believe me jsut the other day i was talking to my friend ..about the girls we come across in trains while travelling.. u know they are from rural areas stying in bombay..if u look at them n compare with us ...we look like we come from some village ...they look so hep and smart..they prefer living alone ...they work for some call center..like to party ..not at all those family types who will like to sttle down or hv babies...far away from such thoughts...n another thing that has become popular live - in relations..obviously...there is no elder person withn them....i.mean lifestyle ..has changed so much...girls n boys they are so sure ..about what they want..they are so sure about everything ..not at all like us...taht ur parents said get mrrd settle down n they will settle down...we want to see are grand children n they will produce one for u...not at all ..they will take 2 to 3 years after mrrg for frist baby...mrrg is last thing intheir mind...so the babies...

childer b4 mrrg and umpteen n preteen preg are totally dif f issues...

and having a baby at the age of around 18 - 19 is really shocking...i mean hats off to them who can take care of them ...coz at he age of 18-19 u are like a child...

let me tell u one thing its nothing like im making fun ...my mother was in 7th std whe was in school...she got a proposal form my fahter her family liked him so much that they said ..we wont come across such guy again n they got her mrrd...but this was 30 years back...now things hv totally changed here...

thats y i said in a country like US...4get it....i shd have kept my comment to myself only...sorry again....

i think i should keep my advises for babies only....im sorry again... gauri replied. mayb i ddnt put it properly...but honestly im shocked ..how can u be mom so early that too coming from countries like US....???
otherwise nowadays ...whoever i cum across they ask me one question do u want to go for 2nd child its a wrong decision...better hv only 1...my very own bro' s n bhabhi' s believe that....
at 30 they feel they are too young to get mrrd...
i got pregnant imme after mrrg coz both my husband n I wanted to hv as soon as po...then we sd we can wait for 3 years for another baby...
u know every1 was making fun of me when i broke the news im preg..thy were like so soon...u hardly enjoyd mrrd life...
i dont know what sense n in what way couples dont enjoy after having babies...
so atleast i hv not cum across any1 having baby or getting mrrd so soon..at 30 also nowadays people feel they are too young to produce babies...n cant handle them n take responsibity...
no comments... Swapna replied. The poster wanted to know if there are moms of her age ,that' s all. Why raise a hue and cry for this and call people names.Geez..some people... gauri replied. coz in mumbai atleast we graduate at the age of 21...
then many girls prefer to go for further studies or work for soemtime till u find a right guy...mayb im wrong but people around me follow this..lol gauri replied. what was the purpose of this question?
n acc to perfect mom at 23 ...u can hv 2 kids?
must be from pakistan.....im sorry.. me replied. itz a right time to have ur baby...if talk medically having ur baby frm 18 to 30 will b healthy..so u r in median age...itz much more perfect..i am a mommy of 1.5 yrs old baby ..i am 23 yrs old..n most of the mommies over here will have 2 kids at thiz age shehnaz replied. dear i am a mom of 2 kids aged 4n1 and i am 24 now (1983)