Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Once again I am here with my problems. Last month i underwent IUI ( now i forgot the number of times i have gone thru it)i was on clomid,pregnyl and then IUI on 12th day..everything was perfect but when the nth hour my doctor told that my cervix was not opening and thats the reason maybe i am not getting pregnant. This doctor treated me for the first time, in the same hospital other doctor was on leave and so i went to her. She told me maybe she will have to do some surgery or laproscopy something like that. I don' t know when and how and if at all i will have a Baby. My heartbreaks each time i have to go for the injections etc but am happy thinking maybe this month it will be positive. I wanted to know I have undergone IUI many times and even IVF once but one doctor told me the constant treatment maybe the result my cervix is not opening. Now i don' t know what to do. please help me someone. Anamika replied. Hi Sowdha,
You don' t know how happy I was to read a reply to my message and that too such a positive one. Even I feel nothing is in our hands.Its only and only God knows when to bless us. I also feel we are just unnecessarily taking all these tensions each month, my Mom also tells that God will bless you you just need to relax and take a break. I too will try to do as you said and will take a break this month. Thanks so much once again and kisses to your little son. God Bless You all. sowdha replied. Hi anamika,
I completley understand how u feel. I have been married for 12 years and for the past 4 years undergone lot of treatment for pregnancy, 6 times IUI, 2 miscarriages. It was hell. One doctor said that I have a block in my right fallopian tube, and every month i wa on clomid went for ultrasound and found that mostly i was ovulating in the right side, got so irritatated, lost hope in evrything. So one time when i had ovulated in the right side did not go for IUI thought we will take a break and both me and my husband went on a holiday, beleive me we did not calculate any date had a happy fun time and i was surprised to see tht i was pregnant tht time, now i have a 4 month old son. So don' t lose hope beleive in god, and take a break from these treatments for atleast 2 months go on a outing and enjoy the togetherness, you will surely click. All the best.
sowdha