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Dear
Padma & vichu
thanks for your valuable feed back . Myself going to do IVF in Indira hinduja's clinic at Mumbai .Do not know wt is there in my fate . Moreover I am caught between my job and treatment(as holding a responsible post).Started treatment first at KOLKATA,CHENNAI then at MUMBAI.Hope Mumbai is the ending.....(though concieved normally once in my bed room itself!!!!!now roaming from one place to another).
Wt is the present status of treatment of u two ?
Hoping 2 hear from u
Lots of love
RIA Anamika replied. Hello Friends,
Good luck to you Ria. Padma and Ria hearing all that you both wrote here I could not stop myself from writing. It brought tears to my eyes and I too am recollecting what all pains I am going throught. Not only me my parents, sisters, husband, family all are going through a lot of pain because of me. My Parents too advised me not to think about all this and just move on with life and think about myself too. As they say all these medicines will affect myself and only we are responsible for taking care of our own health and noone else will. I know its so difficult but now even I have thought of just concentrating on being happy and healthy and do all that I can to make my parents and all happy. With my increasing age I really don't know what is in our fate. I have left it all to GOD and surely God will bless all of us sometime and hopefully it will be soon.Offcourse sometimes I can't resist from seeing the doctor what to do. Anyway friends have faith in God is all that we can do. Take care and Good luck. Padma replied. Hi Ria

All the best and i am sure it will click. As for me, i stopped tmt after 2 round of IUI failures. Did not have the patience for further tmt. Also, my job involves lot of travelling and with great difficult i avoided travel for a month and nothing worked out. so past 2 months nothing. I am contemplating whether i shld go for tmt. My hubby is suggesting for IVF...but looking for a good place. Mumbai may not be feasible for me as i have to shuttle from Bangalore to Mumbai. Mporeover the craze for having a child has come down for me and i am getting adapted to the fact that i may not have a kid at all. So thot better to concentrate on my career.

WHere do you live?

I am sure 2007 would bring luck for you. Where in Chennai did you go for tmt? I saw Dr. Malpani website and that also looks good. I am sure you would have done a thorough search.

Take care and don't get bogged down because of this.

KR
Padma