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This is not a very important problem friends.But i just feel hurt and want someone to shaer with.Thts y.
I am married for 1.5 years.TTC.No luck so far.My hubby 's friend a nice guy got married 1 year back.Before marriage he used to come to our house stay for one day have lunch,dinner come with us to hotels sometimes and we were all good friends.His wife got conceived soon after marriage.Untill she conceived she was nice to me.But after that she's coming to our home and showing faces to me.She is elder to me.But still.She tells like You don't know how it feels.I feel like vomiting at the sight of this cake.And she will add because i am pregnant know thats y.I really feel happy that they are going to have a kid.Recently they called our home and while speaking in the phone they asked where i buy my sarees and he said like i want to buy one good saree for her since we are having a function for her now(pregnancy function).He invited my hubby and she told him not to invite me because i am trying & not pregnant for 1.5 yrs and if i see her function something might happen to her baby.I really feel hurt!No words to express.I don't know why Nowadays something or the other is daily happening that hurts me a lot. bhavana replied. I agree with our friends below and also would like to add stay away from her.If she is hurting you deliberately she is not even your friend and should not be given the honour of friendship.
Move away from her and get your life back to the happy state.
As for you getting pregnant,it will happen.Don't focus too much on getting pregnant.Just let it go.
My way was to cry every month,and face it head on ,then one day I got tired of crying and realised that life is too precious to keep crying over something that we have absolutely no control.
Just have faith and it will happen when you least expect it.Keep smiling always Karishma replied. IGNORE BABY IGNORE.

The person who loves u will not make you cry, and the person who makes u cry is not worth a single tear.

so dont bother and dont involve urself with ur so called fair weather friend. Padma replied. Hi Priya
Just ignore that family and take care of your helath and mind. If your friend is behaving weird, you shld just ignore.

Don't take this too much to your heart!! Relax and think of positive things and people.