Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi all,

Tday AF came and all the hopes of having a baby just went down the drain again. I feel as if I have lost all the strength and hope to have a baby. Looks like I am not destined to have one. This was my second cycle of Clomid and I did IUI this time. Even then it did not work. Am not doing any more cycles of clomid. I have no faith left in God and I don't know what to do ......am sooooo depressed with life...god is not there atleast not for me....just wanted to share my feelings ....thx

Nikk's Karishma replied. I can very well empathise with ur situation. Caus am also going thru it.

Try to cut out from this board, i know its very difficult and i am trying not to log on too often, but i do keep reading but dont go about gluing my life up on this site.

No doubt, all the people outta here are amazing and can understand wat each one of us is going thru.

Pls. understand dear, this is not the be all and end all of all situation. We have come to this world for many better things. Ok, We are not attended to at this moment of time.

But be sure, the ONE above us is watching each one of us, and he knows wats to be given to whom an when. So we have to just keep our eyes and ears open, Keep praying, Stay Positive and We will not even know as to when we have left this board.

So here's to a new beginning to all of us!!! Hoping and praying that each one of us is outta here asap.

Loads and loads of baby dust on all of us.

Lots of love.,

Karishma
kshama replied. hi annie,
hugs to u dear. U really had toughest phase of life. u deserve all happiness.
nice to know that with all pain u have u'r love baby:)
kshama annie replied. sorry to read abt ur failed cycle. now don't get scared read my list.1st of all i hv a 6 1/2 mt old son now. but had to wait for 10yrs to get him!!! started ttc after 3rd yr of marriage, no success after 1 yr. fertyl & timed intercourse for 3 cycles-no success, changed doc 6 coutinuous cycles of iui with 100mg clomid no success. moved abroad, took a break for 1 yr. then tried iui wt clomid for 1more cycle=no success. took break for 1 more yr. then tried ivf in blr--2 cancled cycled for poor response, then got ivf+tranfer=failure. took break for 6 mts. 1more cycle of ivf= ectopic pg. break for 6 mts 1more failed ivf, next cycle with blastocyst transfer got pg & now hv my love & getting naughty son. so don't ever lose hope or blame God. even i had all the feelings u hv mentioned. its natural to feel that way. my suggestion is gather up all ur mental strength, courage & go ahead with it. when u r on continuous treatment sometimes body will respond to it. so don't give up, buck up girl & as they say \" take the bull by it horn\" . good luck to you my dear. lots of baby dust on you all. strawberrypink replied. Hey Nikk's,

A little smile on the face plz....I know after reading all the responses from Kshama,SM n HFTejas...you would have felt much better.

Even I had my AF today,gosh even i was in ur mood for sometime,In your case u know atleast whatz happening but in mine i really donno dear....

Have hope i know we all will reach out there soon...

loads of babydust kshama replied. hi nikki,

i understand what u r going through. I would suggest u to take a break if u r so depressed. doctors genearally ask u to try IUi for atleast 3 to 4 cycles. u take a break now. Just come out this baby making world and lead a normal life get u'r self busy in doing u'r hobbies . Read good books if u like reading. If u can work try working. Go out pamper u'rself and try to develop an attitude; that whener it has to happen it will surely happen. U'r right time is not yet come. it will Surely come. Some people on this world should have lot of patience in haing baby. we are one of those.

come out of this blue just enjoy what we have now, if we are sad we would make out surrounding too sad in turn not good for us. u will have baby just have to wait and rush for it.

i hope i have not eaten u'r head:))
cheer girl and have a nice time

kshama S M replied. Hey Nikk,

I know that whatever we all say the pain is still going to remain.I am not going to ask you not to cry.
But never lose hope dear.
Every month that goes by you are that closer to getting and giving all of us the good news.
Just hang in there sweetie.
Have faith.I do have faith that all of us are going to have our babies.
My prayers with you and for all of us. hopingfortejas replied. Nikk's ,

God is there and he is just waiting for the right time to bless all of us .... this was only your second clomid cycle ...i know there are amny couple who hit the jackpot in their first/second natural trial itself with no medics but try not to comapre yourself with them ...

compare yourself with me :
1st cycle - 100 mg clomid - no ovulation/no AF (had prometrium)
started with a new doc
2nd cycle -50 mg - no ovualtion/no AF (had prometrium)
3rd cycle -100 mg - no ovulation/no AF (had prometrium)
4th cycle - 150 mg - 2 follicles , no luck ...
3 months break
5th cycle - 50 mg - no ovulation
6th cycle - 100 mg - 1 follicle , no luck
went to India - 3 months break
7th cycle - 100 mg - 2 follicles - failed IUI
8th cycle - 100 mg - got PG ...

This is just my case, i am sure many of the aldies on this board have similiar stories to this and are not giving up .....

so dont lose hope, i am sure things will work for you ..
-P