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hi everyone.i am tryin since 2 years.i have done evrythin possible..first i went with clomid then doctor told to do follicular study.i did that also n came to know i have polycystic ovarian syndrome...then i was on metformin 1000mg n 100mg clomid .i continued with this for 4 months with a few breaks in the middle coz it causes depression to have so many tablets without any success...aahh........i did everythin prayed to od went every doctor in the city....then we did
hsg to check for tubes n there..........my tubes didnt seem to be open and doctor has adviced for laproscopy now.......i will do it august 2 nd week most probably and if it is really blocked then i hav eto o with ivf or if it is a spasm or somethin then it will be treated hopefully.....oin through all this isnt easy and to top it all people keep askin 'r u expectin'...wen they know how hard it is for us to o through all this emotionally and financially too......hope everythin works out for me and all the people here with same condition...i need support from frenz of same condition to help me o through this tough path of INFERTILITY......any feedback will be welcomed hope to make ud frenz here..bye S M replied. Hey cheer up dear.I know its hard.But keep your chin up.Anybody who asks you when you are getting pregnant tell them sweetly but confidently\";Whenever that happens we will let you know\"; or you'll be the first ones to know.
I had a friend who after getting pregnant (she tried for 4 yrs) would keep telling us to do it properly(whatever that means).Initially i used to get angry after keeping the phone.Later I started laughing as to how funny it sounded.
My hubby also used to feel bad.
I know its easy to say keep calm,keep trying,don't stress,but you have to do it to keep yourself from falling into depression and losing your sanity.
Have faith.This must have been the obstacle in your path ,and what do you know after removing the blockage you will get pregnant that month itself.
So just have faith.And whenever you get down or want to vent we all are here for you to support you and help us all get thru these difficult times.All the best for aug 2nd.Say a tiny prayer and you are going to be fine. kshama replied. hi,

u'r problem is same as mine. During HSG last year my both tubes were blocked. They did laprascopy to me and found that one tube was very very bad so they had to remove that. Another tube looked fine in laprascopy. After that i have been trying for 1 year no luck. U please go ahead with laprascopy.

luv
kshsama simmi replied. hi
I am also sailing on the same boat. and it makes me feel little better that I am not the only one in the whole world who is trying hard for it an not geting it. We were married for 5 years and trying from last 3.5 years but no luck . evereyone asks me the same questions . i am 35 and my hubby is 39. my MIL says that u guys r getting old when will u have kids? even though she knows that v r trying hard. but as usual she thinks that it's me who is not serious.
but i always thinks taht god must ahve soemthing great for me and he is testing me.
Hopeinme, u can always write on this board and u will get lots of support and friends. It's good to bring out your feeling which u can't share with anyone not even with your husband's sometime, even though they r with u.
tons of baby dust to all of us.
simmi karishma replied. hi,

truly understand wat u r going thru.

Since the doc has advised for a lapro. do the findings. Hope alls well with the readings!!!!!

Its a natures way to do all these things i guess so.

Go thru all the torture and if alls well then we are safe else lament.

sometimes i fail understand, as u said, God shud grant the needy.

I am going thru all this since 6 yrs but no luck.

Try not visitng this site often and keep urself busy with other things. This site shud not be the be all and end all of all the sitution.

I used to frequent this site quite often but i hv stopped doing so. As u get addicted to it. I do come into the blog but just read and leave it there.

But when i read u gals, i cant hold my emotions and feel like venting my feelings too.

Just stay relaxed. all will work well.

keep in touch off and on. let us know wat happ abt ur lapro.

take care.

luv

karishma