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plzzz tell me why my daughter studying in class K.G. is now a days crying a lot on about her no reason at all specially after her younger sis was born . Jeoulsy is one factor I' ve ruled out since is very caring about her. every now and then she complains to her grandparents if we try to explain her something we never pressurize her for studies .Earlier she was very keen for coloring but now her coloring skills have gone from good to worse but I must admit she is still darling of her teacher and good in studies but she whines a lot and starts crying for no reason atall even if we try to be funny with her rema replied. After the second child is born the first child behaves in an unusual way.That is a very very common problem.Try to spend more time with her in what ever she is interested in.Slowly things will get changed and she will be the most lovable one to take care of the little one.For further
visit chennimoms. nw replied. Most young kids love to have a baby sister or brother and can get all excited about it. But overtime, inspite of their love for their baby sibling,they can get jealous or feel left out and cannot comprehend their feelings. This could reflect in their behaviour.
In your case, it looks like your daughter is going through similar feelings. Try involving her as mom' s little helper or baby' s big sister in taking of her baby sister and make a big deal of it.....egs. help with diaper/nappy change, getting baby bath supplies ready etc. Give her small rewards and a lot of praises for doing this.
Spend an evening once a week alone with her, may be playtime at park, or going to the movies or reading bedtime stories etc. Give this a shot and some time. Hope this works!!