Name: sonia

hi ! i also wanted to say something ! hope u get he point. look shri any relationship takes time to build. with our own blood relations, everything evens out at the end of the day as they r our own blood but marriage is something that has tobe built. so take it easy. enjoy our motherhood and even if u keep a maid or send the child to day care don't starting thinking it's the easy way out. oh no ! the child will be more clingy and would want u more. insecurities set so young creep up later in life !! so u have to be there for the child now that u have the child. have to be there mentally and physically. give her your company, your 100% attention. and there r so many ways u can bond with her. later u will crave for her attention !! and about husbands - well, give it time. deal with it maturely. if he's taking time to come around. u dont' be impatient. he will eventually. just don't get into a conflict. men have ego's and now just egos but supersized ones. so be the loving person that u r, dont' let things go out of hand as children also sense it. and it's not healthy for anyone. don't get into unnecessary arguments and when the time comes, when he is ready to listen, he will - how u talk and how u present things is very important. meanwhile u keep doing what u have u and what u think is right. some things just have to be dealt like this - by not doing anything. don't give up. and u know what - go out with your friends too. give yourself a break ! without that u'll really loose your sanity !! all the best !

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