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Name: vidhya

Hi All

I have posted about my son' s problem earlier in this board now i just need some suggestion. My son is 2 yrs and 9 months old. I have put him in the playschool . He is going to school for the past 1 month. Initially he did cry like other children, then he was ok, i could somehow manage to send him in but now i notice he don' t really want to go into the school, i notice in the school one of the teacher is really screaming and shouting at the kids, my son is hyper active and dosen' t follow instructions , i couldn' t figure out whether heis naughty or hyper active, i also noticed the teacher screams and control the children, my child don' t like people screaming at him, so i guess he must have done something mischeveous and got scholding from the teacher, is this way of handling toddlers ok , i dont ' t know, can' t they be a bit softer to the kids, everyday when i go to fetch him, they complain that he has beaten theteacher etc , i tried to tell myson so many times that he cannot be naughty in the school he don' t seem to listen, i don' t know what to do, now i have a feeling he don' t like the school, what i am worried is even if i change the school, and the teacher there also does the same then this fellow don' t want to go there, then what to do, really confused, anyway i don' t want to changethe school now, i think i should give him some time, another problem with him, is just dont want to mingle with any children, he refuses to, what to do, he plays alone, and i try to educate him at home, or teach him something at home, fo r example if i show him a book if he sees an apple picturein that he just want to keep looking at that apple and dosen' t allow me to turn the page, even if i trun the page he just want to turn to the page where there isan apple and keep lookingat it only.Is this all normal for a kid to do, i tried to divert him by showing him something interesting but dosen' t seem to listen . Some times i get depressed and feel something is not normal in him, pls advise

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