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is it my karma that i have to go thru this. Its like God is testing me at every point now. And somehow I feel I am failing everytime otherwise I would have been blessed with a child. I think I am a weak person and so God is trying to make me strong. Trying to make me face my fears. E.g. This cousin who always competed with me. I got marks, she would compare her marks, I did an MBA she did an MBA, I cut my hair she cut her hair. I got married in USA, she did the same. And so on. Now she has finally won the race. She is a Mother of a bonny baby. I vowed that I will not get hurt if I don't meet her. So now, I had planned a visit to my Mother's to India for a long time in Bangalore. Now I am going there and guess what, got to know my cousin is already there. It is by God's will that I will have to face this- my relatives and my status of a loser. But maybe I will harden as nails and thats what God wanted- face it! kshama2 replied. Hi,

Do not run behind like this. U can't be happy like this. Her life is different and u'rs is different. So where comes the competion?
Everybody's life is different, it is written by THE GOD. So please stop feeling this. Go to India, meet her and be happy there is nothing to be taken competetive.

luv
kshama

anjali replied. Life shouldn't be competative with others my dear...you will be never happy if that happens..think what makes you happy..don't bother about others...there will be always situations the people whom we don't like or like ahead of others.. karishma replied. hi dear,

dont keep such a pseudo. pls. change it, tht too makes a difference dear.

Atleast u dont think abt. the competition. Not all are alike. Dont worry.

Pls. dont blame God. He does things for our benefit and we being a novice dont understand his need to do so. So please hang in there and stay positive.

It makes a difference dear.

We, at ttc board, are always there to listen to u. Keep speaking to us, U will really feel lots of ur worries and tensions will ease out without your knowledge.

I can very well understand ur feelings. But pls. dont blame God and keep praying to him. He is the person to do wonders and if he hears u speak to him so rudely he might turn his face from u. Do u want that to happen, no naa??

so stay calm and dont get petrified at wat all these unnecessary things.

Waiting to hear from u.

Your friend,

Karishma