Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

hi!!
sunshine, strawberry pink, sanjana, parul and all others who have ever read my msgs and felt bad for me...i really need ur help and support.
my temps didnt come down yesterday as they were supposed to be..so i did a preg test today morning....it came positive!!!
i cried a lot!! i have already had a miscarriage and i tried for almost one and a half year. all the pain and suffering that we have been thru just ran in front of my eyes...my ultrasound that told me there is no heartbeat, the D and C, planning for sex, having sex even when i had a fight with my hubby, even when we were tired, crying after getting to know of every single person who got preg, longing for a baby every time i saw one, hating parties for the fear of that one objectionable question....only u wonderful ladies can understand that...a pregnancy for us is not like everyone's else's. we know a pregnancy is not equal to a baby, and we know the value of being a parent, and we know we can be really great parents if we get a chance...
guys, i need ur prayers. doc says if the test says im preg, im preg. but my first appt. is due after 15 days. i need this to be a viable preg. i need to be a parent. i dont want another miscarriage.
please pray for me and be with me...i need u...
love,
pari. Neha replied. hey pari,

congrats..... and a big hug to u. u dont know me, but i know u well. im a mom of 2 and my younger one came in as a surprise. never once did i think of letting him go coz immed i wud think of u and all others on this board who were tying hard for a lil angel. so in a way u guys were my inspiration to go ahead with baby#2 and now i dont regret my decision one bit.
take good care of yourself, eat well, rest well. no more negative thghts to creep in.think only abt the lovely times ahead in ur life.
keep us updated and yes, i shall pray hard for u. Manisha replied. Dear Pari,

This is really great news...I can understand what you are going through... I lost my father tragically one and a half years ago, and have also spent the last 2 years taking a lot of treatment, and now I am finally pregnant - 4th month, touchwood!
Am sure my dad's gonna come back to me, and your mom will come to you also!!!
Take a lot of care, and rest well!

Cheers,
Manisha. Rupa replied. COngratulations pari....you have done it...god has heard ur prayers..

we all are so happy for u...dnt worry dear..just dnt think abt wht will happen later..stay positive and think abt how ur life is going to change now..

Once again congrats dear.

Rups Padma replied. Dear Pari,

Yipppeee... all the others have said most of what needs to be, let me be more specific.

Drink plenty of water, pee often and eat right - No papaya, pineapple, pizza (no MSG for nine months now) or anything made outside your kitchen.

Careful physically - look where you're going, dont slip or bump against something and dont fall sick. Any weight is not for you to lift now.

Ignore all the unimportant people and their remarks/comments - whether its your hubby, your in-laws or anyone. Any remark.. Just switch on a buzzer in your mind.

Mind games- picture yourself with your baby, fill your heart with happy, positive thoughts. Leave the rest to God. S/HE got you here, S/HE'll get you through. Light a lamp/agarbatti at home and let it burn all day (till you go to sleep)

Its just you and your baby in your radar now. put all your energies into her/him.

The cosmic is reverberating with prayers your friends here have sent. You're blessed!!

Take care
Padma RK replied. Hi Pari,

Congrats Pari.I am very happy to know that your pregnant.Dont worry we are all there with you.Take good care of yourself and dont think -ve.I can understand what u wud have gone thru as I had to terminate my baby boy in 6th month.Our prayers are with u.

Take care.Keep in touch.

Rgds
RK Reshma replied. Hi Pari..
Have always been reading ur mails ..
and am very happy for u ..
This time god has given u with both his hands...
Please do not get tensed and njoy the experience of motherhood to the fullest...and moment which u have been anticipating since so long...

Take care..
Regards
Reshma i replied. COngrats dear pari

Dont worry & relax a lot...U NEED TO RELAX ALOT...All who have read ur messagesr really praying for u my dear.
Take Care & relax.& pray.

LOVE I karishma replied. Hi Pari,

Heartiest Congratulations!!

So a pari is entering ur life babes!!! Ur mom comes to u in disguise!!

I am really happy for u and God is blessing u in the form of ur mother!!

I am really really very very happy for u!!

God does listen to our cries dear!! Hold on to it!! Pls. dont let negativity land at ur doorstep.

This angel is god sent and he will always want us to guard this angel.

Things will definitely work fine for u!!!

U r in my prayers now and always!!

Pls. keep writing to us and boost our morale.

I know for sure that each one of us will leave this board sooooooooooooooon and will b chatting in the due date board veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy soooooooooooooooon!!!

Heartfelt wishes

Karish
Sunshine replied. Firstly, let me give you a big hug... I read your message 3 times to make sure that what was written was not an illusion! I was laughing as well as I had tears of happiness for you in my eyes...
I'm sure very very sure that God is with you... and most importantly... your mom is with you. and it goes without saying that we are with you, praying for you every step of the way.
Stay strong, pray everyday, think positive thoughts.. give your baby all of our love...
Take care of yourself. And keep visiting this board to keep us updated...
You are always in my prayers.
Loads and loads of love to you!
Always,
- Sunshine Pooja replied. Hi Pari,

I am a regular visitor here, though seldom post. I have read all your messages and I really feel for you. I am so so so happy to read a message, a positive hpt, message from you. I am all in tears and I have said a prayer for you, I really really hope this baby stays with you and you forget about the pain you got through your inlaws. I was shocked when you wrote about the fights and all, you are such a wonderful soul. Please, please take care of yourself. Donot stress at all. Just try to divert your mind somewhere else. Don't think about the negative things, pray. God is there for all of us. He has blessed you also.

Please keep us updated and donot fight or worry or feel sad. Be happy, enjoy each and every day.

luv and hugs,
Pooja Roshni replied. Hi Pari,
Congratulations!!!
I used to read your messages and hoped that some day you will come here with a positive HPT!!!
(Are you the same one whose husband is in merchant Navy or somethins? I am a reader of this site since 2005 and i remember you posting something like that..)
Now the whole wait is over, try to concentrate on positove things. Don't think of bad and scary things, forget about what happened in past. Just stay positive, eat healthy, take rest and contact a doctor ASAP. Follow doctor's instructions and keep us posted.
I am really really happy for you.
Good luck and keep smiling,
Roshni
(September 2006 board) kshama2 replied. Hello Pari,

I'am really very happy for u. It is really a great news. See GOD is with u.

I hope more good news from everybody

happy pregnancy journey
luv
kshama suman replied. I am sure that is your mom came back..and she won't leave you... IB replied. Hii Pari,

Feel so happy to hear the good news. Dont worry everything will turn out great. wil defintely keep u in my prayers. once again congrats and take good care and rest. ur doctors appointment will go fabulous.

IB naina replied. Hi pari,
congratulations and all the best for your 9 mnts of pregnancy and for a happy and jolly motherhood.may GOD shower all the happiness on you and may your dreams come true.Bye and take care. meena replied. Dear Pari,
Congrats! Am so happy for u. I have been reading you messages in the past and know what all u have gone thru.
Be positive this time. I'm sure this is a viable pregnancy and u'll be 1 happy Mommy in 9 mths. Take good care of yourself and avoid any strenous activity till u see the Dr.
Love,
Meena