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got my period after 37 days due to all these meds. Got tested thrice for pregnancy- negative results. Thank god it was not ectopic pregnancy like last time. But really wanted to concieve - 6 yrs of marraige and no kids! Everyone around us is having kids- ppl younger than me, my age...Just expected a bit more understaning on the DH front. He said he is fed up with my upsetness and anger. I got cranky when my period was due and then when I actually got my period due to pain and hurt. He says I trouble him with my moodiness and cannot cope with this problem. I am calling my mother to live with me for sometime. He is ok but I just wish I had a stronger sounding board. Just wish he could do away with the shouting and scolding at least when I am so touchy and irritable. I am sure it is hard on all ur families also when u get ur period after trying for so long- how do u cope with it- how family handles it? mk replied. hi dear,

I am new to this board and in the same boat as all of u are.Wanted to share with u my feelings,i am also married for 6 yrs and eagerly waiting for that miracle to happen.
I can totaly relate to your feelings.Its natural to have all those emotions after facing failure every month.
Let me tell u one thing start meditating if u don't it wil keep u calm.and God will definately listen to our prayers its just that he is testing our patience.

Take care
mk karishma replied. Hi dear,

Tis very hard to tell someone, welcome to this board. But wat can one do.

I know wat u r going thru. Just hang on and trust in God. Atleast u can think naa that something untoward didnt happen to u as regards ectopic pregnancy and such.

I too am married for 6 yrs. and still in the hope n faith of becoming a mother soooon!!!

Actually its the irritability that is coming past a women, as she goes thru so much pain and agony month after month and she just wants some close member of the family comforts her with calm words. I know our husbands also r in the same pain, but the decible of pain is more amongst us than the better half.

Good that you are calling ur mom home. Atleast u know u will get those comforting words from her, as she wudnt want her baby to suffer like this. wat say??

Even i get irritated at the drop of a hat. My husband asks me the moment i get irritated and then after he understands the situation he comforts me. He always says, U r there for me and i am there for u naaa?? in case we dont have babies, we are there for each other. When he says that, i get depressed even more.

I have wonderful family (touch wood!!!)They dont ask anything question that pains me to answer them. But i keep them updated wat is happening at my front. So the topic ends there and then.

Trust you will have a wonderful life at your disposal.

All the best for everything in life n loads of baby dust on u and all of us.

Karishma hopingfortejas replied. Hey,

I can understand how you feel because i got my P this weekend and i was making life hell for both of us :( ...

My husband does have a lot patience and keeps comsoling me ...

One thing that i always do is even if i torture him when i get my AF ( ..!! :) ..

I tel him ater how much i appreciate his being with so supportive , i tell him the truth that i really can't go through all thsi without him ....

we ahve been trying for 18 months now ..so i think that it does take a toll on both of us ... but i think talking openly about it when you ar enot in that cranky mood might help ...

i also think it might help you that your Mom would be around for sometime ..

take care and dont lose hope :)
-P