Hi all,
My daughter is 10 months old.I am a housewife.So i spend all time with my kid.She likes to play with her father but she wants me also to be with her.She clings to me when our friends come home and starts crying when they try to take her ,but its ok if they play from a distance.They say i am spoiling kid by taking her whenever she cries.But i want my kid to feel secure and so i take her and slowly approach them .I would like to know whether my approach will make her stick to me more?She used to go to others 2 months back. Any ideas which can make her more social?I have read that kids will be more attached to primary caretaker.still want to know about other kids behaviour pattern during this age.Please help me to get out of this confusion.
Thanx rohini replied. hi

I have a 10 mth old girl and she was going thro this sometime back. u have to try and take it slowly. u have to slowly make her get used to people by sticking by her side and playing together with them.this will pass soon as she turns 1 . its ok to let the baby cry once in while if u know that she is doing it on purpose(thats spoiling) but if she is genuienly scared of strangers tjaen u shd pick her up as therw will be time when she will go willingly. so dont worry abt it.
take care
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