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Bollywood is copying westerns & spoiling our generation.
Try to solve this out if anyone have any new suggestions to help out our children please write.
Our children are forgetting their hindustani sabhyata.
We should explain them as it is said that childrens lessons starts from mothers lap & familys.
From the begining avoid them looking all these films & serials, tell them that all this happens only in films & not in real life, &
everyday life is different from filmi duniya.
Always keep on repeating these words to crave it in our childrens mind from childhood.
Avoid them wearing such clothes ,tell them these type of clothes will not be allowed in our house.
From the begining we should put them on wearing salwar kameez buy them a new one everymonth if one can afford.
If you see any girl in salwar kameez praise her that how obedient she looks & you would also like her wearing this type.
Turn their attentions towards some hobbies so that they become less interested in this world of glamour.
Bollywood & serials have also started spoiling our childrens mind.
If anyone have something more to explain please do write.
We must try to save our children from applying western habbits. Ritika replied. Are you saying that Hindustani sabhyata is only girls wearing salwar kameez and acting obedient? Out of such an old civilization and culture, those are the only 2 things that you would most like to enforce in your house? Amazing!!

Sorry to differ but I think bhartiya sabhyata has to do more with being spiritual, doing good deeds in life as you believe in karma, respecting your elders, understanding yoga, ayurveda, hindustani music, dance etc.

Stopping little girls from wearing frocks or jeans is not going to do it. Ans as a matter of curiosity - why are you not so vehement about insisting that boys wear dhoti or kurta pajama from an early age? isnt that part of bhartiya sabhyata too?

Anyways, if you want to give good upbringing to your kids, bring home good books and magazines..and leave them around the house for them to read...children learn more by watching than listening...so be careful in your own speech and behavior. If you ask them to be honest always, but your kid watches you lying to your friends/relatives/spouse, he/she is going to think that lying is acceptable inspite of what you say.

XYZ replied. u cant be rude to them ..and whats the harm in wearing these western outfit..for ex-if ur child would love to wear only salwarkameez and hate or can say shy to wear even a simple jeans u would had force him or her to wear and always made ur child feel that ur r not upto date and shy ...just make ur child be in control of things ..neutral for both western and indian..tv can be used in right way not only for spoiling even when u watch any of serials ask ur kid to look at there dreeses and jewellery they wearing..most of the searials they use indian sarees...ok and dont over react..