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Hi... I had gone to the doc y'day.. She put me on Duphaston starting on the 14th... She told me that she doesn't want me going for any scans or anything for the next 2 months... If all goes well and I get pregnant, that's great.. Else in Dec we'll go for an IUI...
Don't know why, but for a change I have been feeling low. :S...Yesterday, my DH and I were talking about it... He said.. sometimes I wonder if it will ever happen... I'm struggling hard since yesterday to remember that each thing happens in it's good time...
Need some positive words to day girls! or maybe I just need to rest my head in my mom's lap and listen to her reassurances... There's this lady who's a distant relative of mine in my bldg.., she met my mil and asked her how come I'm still waiting to have a child and now technology has improved so much that medicines can take care of everything and that why doesn't she take me to some good doctor... I know this lady means well, but i cannot help feeling humiliated, and embarressed.. I always try to ignore such people coz I know there's no point in getting upset over their remarks... U guys will understand i know...
Take care...
Thanks for listening to me pour out today ladies :)
Love
S xx Rupa replied. MY dear,

Dont feel drepressed or sad....we have to get through this...i knw how it is....

You knw we hve this group of friends with whom we get together...and 2 of them already had children....and there was 3 other couples, one was me and my hubby, and other two couples...they are newly married...and u wont believe....both of them got pregnant.....one already delivered and the other one is due...its so embarassing..u knw...and more than tht its the pain ....which i cant bear...so i hve stopped going ..i am not tht brave to act as if nthng is wrong....poor hubby of mine....i knw wht hes going thru but he supports me to the core...he acts as if its no prblm at all but i knw his feelings within..wht to do...other than just avoid all this get togethers....

Sunshine.....i dnt knw wht our destiny is ...but i am sure with all the prayers that we are doing we ought to get a fruitful blessing....

Dont worry my dear..we are all there for u.....just dnt feel left out...divert ur mind to something...

Tke care my dear...

U r in my prayers.

Rups
hopingfortejas replied. Sorry for intruding into your post ..but felt as though i should say something abt it ...

yesterday i also found out that my progesterone levels is low , so one more feather to add to my cap ...

yep, the best is to ignore what people say, but i also know it is easier said than done, i am actually planning to cancle my trip to India this december bcoz of this ... i feel that few weeks there would ruin all the morale i built up in the past year ...

anyway, as karishma had said our day will come and we will wait and not quit hoping till then ...

-Prarthna Karishma replied. hi babes,

\";You make my Sun Shine\";, and wats on with u. Dont worry babes, things will definitely work fine with u and also all of us.

Pls. dont ever get dejected. Just take each day as a new beginning of ur life.

As u always say, When God has put u to it, he will see you thru it too!!

See, for each one of us in this board, each day is a new day n each month is a new month. I am sure that this thing is gonna end and we will see each one of us sailing in the due date board sooooooooooooooooooooooooon!! Trust me, honey.

I know sometimes we feel upset and down. You wont believe, offlate whenever i go to visit some friend of my DH whom i have met for the first time, the first qs. tht comes to their mind is, \";any children?\"; Oh boy!!! i feel so dejected and helpless to take out the answer, \";not yet\";. I just pray to God and keep crying to him, saying, \"; See, all the people are asking me this question, you know whats right and i know that you are gonna clear this mess of my life and are gonna bless me soooooooooon!! I say like that and next moment i think i feel just abt. fine.

So try taking off your mind from all this and live life as it comes.

Keep writing and am sure you will feel better. Loads and loads of baby dust on you and all of us!!!

luv always,

Karish