My sister in law is very troublesome. She comes to stay with us every weekend but she never leaves without creating any issues. Me and my husband fight a lot because of her as she is the one responsible for creating issues in our happy married life. How to take care of this issue?
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My sister in law is very troublesome. She comes to stay with us every weekend but she never leaves without creating any issues. Me and my husband fight a lot because of her as she is the one responsible for creating issues in our happy married life. How to take care of this issue?
kavita replied. hello lipakshi,
some people like to done all this things, and your sister in law in one of them, so keep your mind calm, and try to ignore his foolish things, and such type people never change.
divya replied. hello lipakshi,
first keep trust on your husband, and sit with him, and discuss the things with him, and try to tell him what is exactely problem created by your sister in law in your personal life.
nivedita replied. hello lipakshi,
if you know your sister in law create issue in your happily married life, so why you start fighting with your husband on this issue created by your sister in law.
parinita replied. hell lipakshi,
i had also suffer from this issue long back ago, but that time my sister in law was unmarried and she created all such silly issue in my life, so i first let done her marriage.
latika replied. hello lipakshi,
take help of your mother in law in that issue, try to keep your sister in law happy, and dont spoil your happy married life because of her stupid reasons, so keep control on your anger.
jhanavi replied. hello lipakshi,
avoid your sister in laws issue whatever she create in your husband mind, so try to keep cool down your mind and set as she will come to home so try to communicate with her once.
shanti replied. hello lipakshi,
its not a big issue for every women, its a all home issue,u have to solve it by your own ways, your husband and you should sit and discuss about this issue, and try to solve it.
Ritu replied. If she is doing all this on purpose then you should tell you family about it and tell them to do something about it but if she is not doing it on purpose then there are some trust issues things.
NN replied. Try talking to your husband when she is not around and make sure that you think and then talk and try your best so that you do not offend him as it is a lil sensitive matter and might cause permanent problem between you both.
kelly replied. Hi lipakshi,
Some people will be like that only and we need to ignore such people because it will ruin our mind and we cannot put an end to them because they will never listen to us and they will never change at all.
No Name replied. Hello Lipakashi,
So your sister in law is creating issues for you then you need to solve your own problems and you have to say your husband why it is coming and you need to explain it to her in an direct manner so that she would not repeat it again.
Ashwin replied. start ignoring, there is no other better torture than this, u dnt show ur restlessness to her ,, once she knows that u r ignoring her, she will stop visiting ur home..
hello lipakshi,
some people like to done all this things, and your sister in law in one of them, so keep your mind calm, and try to ignore his foolish things, and such type people never change.
2016-10-10
#22
Name: divya Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
hello lipakshi,
first keep trust on your husband, and sit with him, and discuss the things with him, and try to tell him what is exactely problem created by your sister in law in your personal life.
hello lipakshi,
if you know your sister in law create issue in your happily married life, so why you start fighting with your husband on this issue created by your sister in law.
hell lipakshi,
i had also suffer from this issue long back ago, but that time my sister in law was unmarried and she created all such silly issue in my life, so i first let done her marriage.
hello lipakshi,
take help of your mother in law in that issue, try to keep your sister in law happy, and dont spoil your happy married life because of her stupid reasons, so keep control on your anger.
hello lipakshi,
avoid your sister in laws issue whatever she create in your husband mind, so try to keep cool down your mind and set as she will come to home so try to communicate with her once.
hello lipakshi,
its not a big issue for every women, its a all home issue,u have to solve it by your own ways, your husband and you should sit and discuss about this issue, and try to solve it.
2016-08-29
#28
Name: Ritu Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
If she is doing all this on purpose then you should tell you family about it and tell them to do something about it but if she is not doing it on purpose then there are some trust issues things.
2016-08-20
#29
Name: NN Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
Try talking to your husband when she is not around and make sure that you think and then talk and try your best so that you do not offend him as it is a lil sensitive matter and might cause permanent problem between you both.
2016-04-28
#30
Name: kelly Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
Hi lipakshi,
Some people will be like that only and we need to ignore such people because it will ruin our mind and we cannot put an end to them because they will never listen to us and they will never change at all.
2016-04-11
#31
Name: No Name Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
Hello Lipakashi,
So your sister in law is creating issues for you then you need to solve your own problems and you have to say your husband why it is coming and you need to explain it to her in an direct manner so that she would not repeat it again.
2015-12-19
#32
Name: Ashwin Subject: Ignorance is bliss
start ignoring, there is no other better torture than this, u dnt show ur restlessness to her ,, once she knows that u r ignoring her, she will stop visiting ur home..
2016-01-24
#33
Name: megha Subject: hi
yaah ignore her...this is the best option. sometimes being silent makes a huge difference.as she know u don't react she will not come up with any issue.
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